Do people have sex before they can cum

[DocMcLovins]

I'm 13 and don't cum yet. I've never had sex or anything. Is it even possible? So far I've avoided getting sucked cuz I can't cum but I kinda want to try but don't want to be embarrassed since I can't shoot. Do girls care? Do other guys do it before they shoot?

[kissban]

its normal. wait...

[drhalsey1]

Like kissban said, it's normal. Some guys just shoot early or late compared to others. But there's no requirements to be able to do it, like nothing you have to do or anything

[DocMcLovins]

its normal. wait...

Like kissban said, it's normal. Some guys just shoot early or late compared to others. But there's no requirements to be able to do it, like nothing you have to do or anything

I know there's nothing I can do to hurry it up. But do you think it would be ok to get oral from a girl? Or is it too awkward?

[Ragle]

Do people have sex before they can cum

some do, most don't

[Straya]

I know there's nothing I can do to hurry it up. But do you think it would be ok to get oral from a girl? Or is it too awkward?

she might prefer not having cum to deal with

[BlackParadePixie]

why are you even worrying about trying to get oral from a girl Why rush things?

[the main man]

lol, girls don't care. i bet some girls would even prefer it because they hate cum anyway.

[bonbon]

Yes, it is possible. There is nothing preventing you to feel pleasure or to get hard. I've done it though I can't shoot yet either.

But don't do it just because others do it! Wait until you feel comfortable with the idea, and to be sure it is a girl you seriously have feelings for. And be honest with the girl and tell her you can't cum yet.

[NZPerson]

Majority of people dont have sex until their late teens like 17-19. Even then they dont sometimes.

[Hermes]

I never did. In theory it is possible because all you need to have sex is an erection. For vaginal sex, obviously she won't get pregnant if you don't ejaculate. I would not imagine it is common, though. For oral sex, would she be disappointed not to get a mouthful? That might depend on the girl. Some might even be relieved.

[Emily 13]

Like kissban said, it's normal. Some guys just shoot early or late compared to others. But there's no requirements to be able to do it, like nothing you have to do or anything

It is possible and normal so you shouldn't feel bad about it.

[nekid]

Guess you can have sex at any age even if you can't cum. I'm 13 and don't plan on having it any time soon

[DimkaD]

Guess you can have sex at any age even if you can't cum. I'm 13 and don't plan on having it any time soon
That's right, technically you can have sex if you can get erection. But i think it's not a good idea to have sex in early puberty

[pjones]

i know a boy at school that had sex before he really started puberty so yes it can be done. not that i'd recommend anyone have sex before they're mature enough for it. i'm almost 17 and know i'm not ready

[bonbon]

I wouldn't really get oral frop girls at parties myself. That's rather weird I'd say. I'd only do that with my girlfriend, and certainly not during a party!

It isn't awkward to tell you can't cum to a girl, it is just being honest, as she may be expecting cum. It isn't easy however, to admit it. Took me a while to be comfident enough to tell it to my gf.

I don't know how common such a situation is. I guess it happens regularly, as there are many boys starting puberty or ejaculating later than average. And if the girl really likes you, she won't laugh. If she does, well... Not worth doing it with her!

[BlackParadePixie]

The whole point of giving a blowjob is to get the guy to cum/orgasm...no one is going to sit there and blow you for half an hour if there's not going to be any end result.

[StacyD]

Yes you can. Try to think of it this way: you can orgasm without ejaculating (i.e. "cumming"). "Cumming" and ejaculating can often be used to mean the same thing, but so can "cumming" and having an orgasm. I know my brothers started masturbating way before they could actually ejaculate (cum). Then, once they started ejaculating, the only thing different was they were producing cum, but still having those same orgasms. Just better I guess. Make sense? I hope so. Main thing, yes, you can, even without actually ejaculating.

[jamie_n5]

To answer your question. You can have sex without cuming. If you can get an erection you can get a blowjob or have penetrating sex male or female.
You are only 13. Why rush into sex? You have lots of time. Besides don't you want to have your penis grow more before you have girls see you?

[Chuck bass]

If you cum in her mouth she might not even notice there's no jizz. Sometimes I hardly cum at all but if it's down her throat she won't notice probably💦💦

[Zachary G]

I know of a few boys younger than me who cant cum yet, but have been doing sex stuff with other people. So, yeah, its possible and its done -- I dont think its a really big deal, so I wouldnt stress about it. You will squirt soon enough.

[DocMcLovins]

The whole point of giving a blowjob is to get the guy to cum/orgasm...no one is going to sit there and blow you for half an hour if there's not going to be any end result.

Well I can orgasm so a girl could suck me till I did that but ya she might boy like it as much if I don't cum so that's why I asked to find out. But at least there would be some sort of end result.

[Swaggmj]

I think if you ready and you both agree go for it. I just had sex on my 13th birthday I didn't know what I was doing or getting myself into I just did it and I did cum. Everyone is different I feel if you do it you may cum.

[Falcons_11]

I did it before I could shoot. But it was with some friends who were my age too and they couldn't shoot either. It was for experimenting and just have a little fun together.

[ClaraWho]

I feel like not producing any ejaculate is a pretty good indicator that you should not have sex yet.

That being said, if you manage to find a girl who doesn't care about your presumably hairless pubic region, tiny penis, soprano voice, etc. then I can't stop you.

It's already illegal for you to have sex in all 50 states regardless of whether or not you can cum.

If I wrote this mods would finally ban me hahahah. This, 100% this.

If your body and mind aren't even ready for the act of sex, why on earth would you rush into it? Are you dying of some horrific disease and won't see 20?? No? Then relax. Stop trying to grow up so fast and enjoy being young and carefree.

~ Clara

[wrecked]

The whole point of giving a blowjob is to get the guy to cum/orgasm...no one is going to sit there and blow you for half an hour if there's not going to be any end result.

You have a point but even if I didn't cum I'd enjoy it

[Hermes]

The whole point of giving a blowjob is to get the guy to cum/orgasm...no one is going to sit there and blow you for half an hour if there's not going to be any end result.

But a guy too young to ejaculate can still have an orgasm so it is not like nothing is going to happen. So it goes back to what your motivation is for giving the blow job. If you specifically want a mouthful of cum then obviously you'd be disappointed in a guy who was too young to ejaculate but if just want to see him experience intense pleasure then it doesn't really make any difference.

[SeansLittleBro]

First off, don't rush it. You are at a stage when you masturbate you can recover quickly and do it again. As far as oral, size has nothing to do with it but don't rush that either. A child can "orgasm" so cum has nothing to do with the pleasures of one.

[DocMcLovins]

I feel like not producing any ejaculate is a pretty good indicator that you should not have sex yet.

That being said, if you manage to find a girl who doesn't care about your presumably hairless pubic region, tiny penis, soprano voice, etc. then I can't stop you.

It's already illegal for you to have sex in all 50 states regardless of whether or not you can cum.

My voice is fine thanks. And even tho I am self conscious about my hairless tiny penis I know many girls think I'm cute and girls always say that size doesn't matter so if not then back off. And what does sex being illegal have to do with it? So you've never had sex and will wait till the state says so? You've never broken any law?

If I wrote this mods would finally ban me hahahah. This, 100% this.

If your body and mind aren't even ready for the act of sex, why on earth would you rush into it? Are you dying of some horrific disease and won't see 20?? No? Then relax. Stop trying to grow up so fast and enjoy being young and carefree.

~ Clara

FTR I don't feel ready for sex. I'm not waiting till the state says I'm legal but when I'm ready I will. I am relaxed but I just had a question. That's the purpose of this site right? Plenty of my friends have sex. I have no need to follow them but when I'm ready I want to be ready. Jeez.