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Lukas1999
December 27th, 2016, 05:44 AM
Today I am going to ask a few questions about a girl I asked a few questions before about. I think you need a little bit of background knowledge to answer to this question.

I chatted with this girl a few months ago. I do some speeches on carnival in many different clubs. I was in her club too. Before it was April I didn't know that she liked me. We have never talked to each other or did something together.

My grandma and her mother worked together. My grandma is in pension so she doesn't have to work. Her mother is still working. They booth keep in touch.

One day in April my grandma asked if I had a girlfriend. I answered with: "No I haven't. So she gave me the number of this girl and we started texting.

We started chatting and chatted till September. I asked her: "How are you" and I am still waiting for a reply.

I asked her many times about a meeting but i heard everytime that she has no time.

So I did not text her again till September but I still have her number. Sometimes I visit her profile to look whether she has a new profile pic or a new status.

Yesterday I have seen her new status. She has this as a status:

You have the key of my heart, an yet you have never tried to open it up

Does she want to say me something with that?
I have a girlfriend right now and I am not really interested I her.
What should I do now?

Just JT
December 27th, 2016, 05:57 AM
From what you said, IMO, if she hasn't replied to you for a month then she has no interest. And that statement could be intended for a number of things reasons or people. Not just for you.

But you could always text her again and say hi!!

Lukas1999
December 27th, 2016, 06:08 AM
The fact is that I have a girlfriend right now. I don't want something with her. The status just makes me think about that what is happened between us. It just makes me sad and angry. She is able to text me too.

ska8er
December 27th, 2016, 07:24 AM
How do u know the change of status was
aimed at u personally? I don't think she is
interested or else she would have made
contact with u way before now. U have a
girlfriend-stay loyal to her.

Emilyyy
December 27th, 2016, 08:00 AM
Yeah if you've been asking to meet up with her for a month and still haven't gotten anywhere then my best guess is she's not that into you. A girl that was into you would make sure she had the time to meet up with you ;)

Bontigo Papi .
December 27th, 2016, 08:53 AM
Not necessarily , you haven't spoken in months it seems so she might just be putting it there because she thinks it's cool . I do that lol .

mick01
December 27th, 2016, 11:57 AM
She has never shown an interest really, and you have a current relationship. Don't risk or damage what you have already. I think you just forget about the other girl.

ClaraWho
December 27th, 2016, 01:20 PM
Wait, so she stopped messaging you in Sept after your GRANDMA tried to set you up?

And for 4 months you've been lurking on her Facebook whilst you've got a girlfriend?

I'm just confused how on Earth you could get the idea she'd even remember you never mind go out of her way to post cryptic, indirect messages! Has she given ANY other indication in 4 months?!

~ Clara

Lukas1999
January 2nd, 2017, 03:42 PM
I just thought that this status was aimed
by me. I actually have a girlfriend and I still
have a few hopes that it can work with this other girl.
I know this is very stupid. I should quit that.
It is an online relationship an the other girl lives
near by me. I can imagine something like just being friends.

I think she expresses indirect messages with a status.
She often chances it.

What do you think about it?