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[frisbee25]

Okay so everybody talks behind everybody's back.Well my friend just uses me swear on it. I do what he wants and sometimes i say no because i don't want to do it. But then i end up doing it. So tonight he wants to go to a movie. I said no and now he said you always get your way no matter what. But i don't. Everybody at school knows i give him things as in friends ship like i stand by him no matter what and I do what he wants.. And when i try to sit down and talk to him he says no because you think its all about you. What should i do?

[AlexOnToast]

I think you need to let him know that he is the one being self-centered. I know how it feels to have someone talking behind your back, It's really one of the worst feelings but the thing is that we all do it - you are pretty much doing it right now XD
It seems pretty obvious that the reason he does not want to sit down and talk about it is because he knows full well that he is in the wrong, in which case he is acting very immature and you are being the better person for simply wanting to discuss the matter.

[frisbee25]

I think you need to let him know that he is the one being self-centered. I know how it feels to have someone talking behind your back, It's really one of the worst feelings but the thing is that we all do it - you are pretty much doing it right now XD
It seems pretty obvious that the reason he does not want to sit down and talk about it is because he knows full well that he is in the wrong, in which case he is acting very immature and you are being the better person for simply wanting to discuss the matter.

Thanks but then he claims I break us apart as friends when its him who does it

[AlexOnToast]

Thanks but then he claims I break us apart as friends when its him who does it

Well then i think you need to seriously consider whether or not it's worth being friends with someone like that :/

[frisbee25]

Well then i think you need to seriously consider whether or not it's worth being friends with someone like that :/

I want to but then he will spread lies about me but theres things i know about him that he does not want people to know. Our school works like this somebody find information about somebody then tells the school hurts the person to suicidal thoughts after they almost die they feel good inside.

And the school is no help for stopping bullying because they say do not defend your self

[AlexOnToast]

I want to but then he will spread lies about me but theres things i know about him that he does not want people to know. Our school works like this somebody find information about somebody then tells the school hurts the person to suicidal thoughts after they almost die they feel good inside.

And the school is no help for stopping bullying because they say do not defend your self

Well then how about you maybe just wean the friendship off over a somewhat-long-term period?
Also, If he know that you know stuff about him, chances are he won't spread anything about you.

[frisbee25]

Well then how about you maybe just wean the friendship off over a somewhat-long-term period?
Also, If he know that you know stuff about him, chances are he won't spread anything about you.

True true thank random people you meet online are really truly nice

[AlexOnToast]

True true thank random people you meet online are really truly nice

Only some of them XD But I try :) Let me know if you need help in the future - I'm here almost 24/7

[frisbee25]

Only some of them XD But I try :) Let me know if you need help in the future - I'm here almost 24/7

Thank you and ok

[AlanPeanuts]

I hate to be blunt... but your friend sounds like a pretty bad person after reading everything o.o

[ksdnfkfr]

I want to but then he will spread lies about me

Screech! This person is not your friend.

He's likely a manipulator who wants you as his personal tagalong.

[Ben101]

This person is NOT your friend, or should not be classed as it. Ive had a few friendships similar to this, talking behind my back, etc but I became wise and never spoke to them. If I were you I would get away from him ASAP

[Reks69]

This person seems pretty bad, you probably should stay away

[Croconaw]

You really shouldn't be friends with him. He sounds like a horrible person.