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Meruedu
December 12th, 2016, 03:40 PM
So there's this guy in my class, he spends time with his friends, I spend with mine, we don't really talk. As a student council representative, I was asked to tell my classmates to submit some art for our school's art gallery.
He told me he was interested (via whatsapp) and we started texting. For hours. Daily. Until like 1 am. At school, we only said hi.

This went on for a week. He told me lots of unsolicited things about himself, about his friends outside of school, about his past crushes, his hobbies and everything. He also told me about his current crush. He liked to say about himself that he doesn't have any interesting thing to do besides crushing on girls, flirting with them and failing badly. He said that he flirts with girls because he's bored, he's doing it as a hobby.
I was enraged, but kept texting him. That until he was supposed to turn in his drawings for the art gallery. He kept forgetting, day after day, even though I reminded him. That's when we stopped talking.

I thought it was weird, he was usually the one to write first, but now it's like it never happened. I'm mad because, during our conversations, I got to have a crush on him and low-key told him that I was interested in him. I don't even know what happened...

ska8er
December 12th, 2016, 10:26 PM
He has a hobby-flirting with one girl
after the other has crushes and then
fails badly-hes insecure with himself
and cant find what he wants so he
makes girls miserable. U don't know
him that well and I wouldn't fall for
him unless u want to get hurt. He
ditched u already with the art project.

ClaraWho
December 12th, 2016, 11:33 PM
He all-out confessed to treating leading girls on as a 'hobby', a sport. Doesn't sound like someone worth falling for, but then we can't control our crushes!

As he said, you were just something to fill the time and boost his fragile self-esteem, I say you are best leaving it and moving on, especially as he doesn't give you the time of day in public.

~ Clara

Just JT
December 13th, 2016, 11:05 AM
As a guy, he's listening to the wrong head. The smaller one. Which means smaller brain. Run. Don't look back

Bontigo Papi .
December 13th, 2016, 02:38 PM
As a guy, he's listening to the wrong head. The smaller one. Which means smaller brain. Run. Don't look back

Exactly . I've been through that as well . You think things are going well and then you meet reality . Texting is never a good idea . Yes , WhatsApp is free and stuff , but you should really talk to him in person if you have feels for him . If nothing comes to it , don't try again . Forget about it . Move on . I'm sure another guy is crushing on you , okay ?