Little brother

[alohakanaka808]

My little brother has been asking a lot of questions lately because he's started to notice that I am circumcised and he's not, that I have pubes (That I usually shave) and he doesn't and a lot of stuff. He's pretty young, should I explain stuff to him?

[ashdaniel]

I say it depend ho close you two are. If your parents don't give talk and you are close and comfortable talking about these topic to him. I will say go ahead and teach him as a big bro. Or you can introduce him to his website.

[SeansLittleBro]

Not sure your age OR your brothers but if he is asking you things, especially since he may have noticed things, I would say if the age is appropriate then answer his questions. My big brothers answered mine when I was like 10 and they were 14 and 16. Your parents should answer them and that is what i would recommend you tell him first, but if he is too shy or if your parents didn't answer yours, as a big brother I think it is important that YOU answer them than letting some kid from school answer these questions.

[teenboyNathan]

It's up to you I guess. I don't have a little brother so I don't have to worry about it but I guess it depends on if you're comfortable talking to him about it

[ska8er]

I u feel he is old enough to b curious about stuff
I don't c y u cant answer his questions-Honestly.
Make sure u let him know that if he does have any
things on his mind that u r there for him.

[Second Chance]

My little brother has been asking a lot of questions lately because he's started to notice that I am circumcised and he's not, that I have pubes (That I usually shave) and he doesn't and a lot of stuff. He's pretty young, should I explain stuff to him?

It depends on how young your brother is before you start explaining sexuality and body stuff to him. Assuming he is a pre-teen and is under ten, then you can just be really general by saying that while all boys have penises that some boys have skins on theirs while other have theirs removed for different reasons. You can say that as a boy gets older that he gets hair in different places which shows he is a man.

If your brother is 11 and over, then you can go into detail about puberty and that sort of things because chances are he will most likely get sex ed this year or next. Also, his friends are probably already talking about such things meaning it is best that he hears information that is responsible from you than from some others who may not be so informed.

[Muk2000]

I would suggest you do.

[Zachary G]

If I had a younger brother and he was asking me all kinds of questions and stuff like that, I think I wouldnt have a problem sitting down with him to have the talk and finding out what he thinks he already knows and making sure he has all of the right information.

[Kyle37]

Well he's your brother, so do whatever, it doesn't really matter

[jamie_n5]

I think it's perfectly normal for a younger brother to ask his older brother sexual and puberty things. He trusts you and feels comfortable because you are a kid too. Just be honest with him and answer his questions as best as you can. You might do searches on the net together for answers and illustrations and things like that too.

[Harrier]

I have a younger brother. He's 13 but acts younger imo. I have answered some of his questions but he really hasn't asked me much and that's fine with me lol. Do what feels right, my only suggestion is don't say stuff your rents might be mad at you for saying. Like help your bro, but also don't like give him full on sex ed. Especially if he's really young. Also, I think it's fine to find out some stuff out on your own.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Go for it. I hit puberty at 10 and it was confusing at the time. It's good to get info from those you trust

[pjones]

my brother is about 3 years younger than me and we shared a room. there were no secrets in our house, he liked telling our parents everything. it was embarrassing at times but we talked about puberty all the time. your choice but if you guys get along well then it my be a good thing

[nekid]

I was able to talk with my older cousin and it was great. He explained what changes I would go through. He was never shy when he slept over so we saw each other naked a lot and it was pretty cool to see how he was growing and getting pubes and stuff. I think it would be good if you explained puberty to him.

[Impressionist1910]

My little brother has been asking a lot of questions lately because he's started to notice that I am circumcised and he's not, that I have pubes (That I usually shave) and he doesn't and a lot of stuff. He's pretty young, should I explain stuff to him?

Well, I don't know considering I have no younger brother.
But, I think you should just do what you think you should do.
It may help him out if you teach him to shave and stuff.
I know I would have appriciated a bit of help.
You guys seem like you're open, so why don't you just see where it goes?

[ThekidErik]

I think you should, you can also show him some websites that explain these things

[Hermes]

It is certainly not your duty to, so don't feel like you have to brazen out embarrassment in order to do so, but if you are comfortable then yes, answer his questions honestly. Let him take the lead, though, i.e. don't try to deliver a lecture. Also if there is anything you'd prefer not to answer just say so, don't fudge.

[datboijoey]

My little brother has been asking a lot of questions lately because he's started to notice that I am circumcised and he's not, that I have pubes (That I usually shave) and he doesn't and a lot of stuff. He's pretty young, should I explain stuff to him?

I was the same way. My big brother answered a lot of questions for me. He didn't know what he was talking about on some things but i love him for talking to me anyways. :wub:

[volleyballer13]

yeah totally normal. if he has questions it not bad to answer them. otherwise he might get incorrect info from friends and stuff like that.

[NewLeafsFan]

Looking back it would have been great to have had an older bro to ask questions. Answer him the best you can. If he's 10 or older you should just answer his questions as honestly as possible. If he's younger then 10 give him age appropriate answers. Since he asks questions about ur body I wouldn't be nude around him anymore. Cover up!

[BryGuy]

I don't see anything wrong with talking to him about it

[Atlantis]

OP banned. :locked: