I really like him, but I don't know if it's okay

[rianvice]

Hey, all!

So a couple days ago, I started rp-ing (meaning roleplaying) with this guy. We get along really well, and I really enjoy talking to him. He also really enjoys talking to me. We exchanged pictures today, and then he sent me a picture of his, uh, yeah.

I'm not uncomfortable with him sending pics to me. I made it clear that I wasn't going to send any pics to him and he was okay with that. Then he asked me if I wanted to Skype with him so he could show me how to masturbate. I told him no. It's not that I don't want to, I'm just afraid that somehow he is going to use it against me in the future, (I don't know him in real life, but I'm paranoid).

I'm not sure what I'm really asking here, but I guess I need some advice. Is it okay for me to be doing this? I want to do those things with him, but I'm just so afraid that it's going to end up like "revenge porn" later on. (btw, I'm 15 turning 16 soon and he is 16).

[jamie_n5]

Well if you aren't comfortable with this now but kind of like him then I would tell him that you want to wait and get to know him better before you go into the Skype thing. You can then eventually decide what you want to do. My advise then is to hold off on the Skyping and get to know each other better.

[ska8er]

If u r second guessing what u should do
then listen to ur conscience-I don't think
u know this guy well enough to do the
things that he has asked u to do. Like I
always say get to know someone better
before u regret stuff. I would not do what
he asks no matter how much he is nice to
talk to or how much u like him-I think he
is moving too fast with u.

[ClaraWho]

That seems like he moved from talk to sex very fast. Clearly not interested in you and more interested in getting off over you. Anything you do, even watching him online masturbating, he could easily use a screen capture programme as you fear.

Might be worth thinking is the desire to do stuff with him a cheap, quick thrill that you will regret in the long run, or is it a meaningful start to a healthy relationship...

I'd hazard not...

~ Clara