Opening up to cousin

[dude_g]

So the other day my cousin came over and I let him borrow my phone and he opened my history, he found that I had watched porn... Long story short, he asked a lot of questions he was already aware of sex etc. But he wanted me to answer question like can I cum how big my dick is, can I show him my pubes and many more I was open enough to say I can cum, but thats it. I told him maybe next time he came I could show him more. I need advice pls help or tell me about your experiences so I could no what to do. Thanks

PS. He's 12 can't cum and doesn't have pubes

[ashdaniel]

Depend on your age but didn't matter most of time. It happen to me before. He just hang out with me and just asking me questions. Well I show him stuff and mess around a bit. Do anything you comfortable and safe. I use to being the younger cousin and I mess around with my cousin before. Now I teach and show my younger cousin stuff. He is around 12-13. Not sure if he can cum yet(didn't try out) lol.

[ska8er]

Hes curious and maybe ur the only one he feels
free to ask u bout stuff-ask him if he has any
questions concerning his body he needs to talk
bout u will answer but b honest with him-as for
showing if u r comfortable with it then show him.

[kyrocks03]

Well I'd be careful. Not sure how old you are, but he's 12. He's also curious, so answer his questions in a matter of fact way and only with what you are comfortable with. You don't want to get yourself into trouble.

[jamie_n5]

I would say that he is curious and only wants to see for curiosity. Just be honest with him and try to answer and explain answers to him. I think this is perfectly normal. He looks up to you and trusts you with his personal questions. I have done similar things with my cousins. Both male and female.

[pjones]

if you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. you can always steer him to puberty websites

[ThekidErik]

If he has questions I'd say help help him or you can always have him look imformation up online

[hesaidhesaid]

Here's what I wanna know...why did you let him look up your web history...
But on another note, you have to do what's right for you. Personally, I would never really do that with a cousin. That's a topic that needs to be discussed parent to child or if he's not convinced, then with a doctor. I wouldn't ever say that's a cousin's job...especially at 12 years old.

[Second Chance]

So the other day my cousin came over and I let him borrow my phone and he opened my history, he found that I had watched porn... Long story short, he asked a lot of questions he was already aware of sex etc. But he wanted me to answer question like can I cum how big my dick is, can I show him my pubes and many more I was open enough to say I can cum, but thats it. I told him maybe next time he came I could show him more. I need advice pls help or tell me about your experiences so I could no what to do. Thanks

PS. He's 12 can't cum and doesn't have pubes

I would say that since he feels comfortable enough to talk with you about sexuality that it would not hurt to talk with him about it. I would be honest with him about any questions he has and answer his questions as best as you can. Chances are he is going to ask you a lot of questions about your own puberty, and it is totally fine to talk about how you handled the changes and what you had done whether it was your first ejaculation, trimming your pubes, and handling getting hair. I would let him ask the questions and you answer as much as you feel comfortable. At the same time, I would encourage him to talk with his parents because they really need to be the primary people talking to him about this sort of thing.

I just would avoid getting naked with him because that might lead to issues especially if there is a large age gap between you two. You can talk to him how you handled your changes and how you figured things out. More than anything, you can reassure him that he's normal and that if he has questions that he can come to you. If someone had talked to you about puberty, then you can use that as your guide to how you would talk to your cousin. More than anything just avoid doing sexual things because that will lead to problems, but you can talk to him about sexuality which is fine.

In the future, when you let folks use you phone, then you really should clear out your browser history so that they do not see what you have been watching. If you have the ability, then try to set your internet browser to clear your history everytime you exit it so that folks will not see anything embarrassing.

Let us know how things work out.

[SeansLittleBro]

Hes curious and maybe ur the only one he feels
free to ask u bout stuff-ask him if he has any
questions concerning his body he needs to talk
bout u will answer but b honest with him-as for
showing if u r comfortable with it then show him.

I would say that he is curious and only wants to see for curiosity. Just be honest with him and try to answer and explain answers to him. I think this is perfectly normal. He looks up to you and trusts you with his personal questions. I have done similar things with my cousins. Both male and female.

These are both good answers. He seems curious and at 12 weren't we all in one way or another? As for showing him he is just asking for comparison I would think. I asked my older brothers and they did show me. Had a cousin that was 9 ask us and it was a definite NO at that age, but 12 is different and I think safe to talk to him about.

[Tpyro]

Hey, i say help and talk with him. We all know how hard puberty can be. Scary times and lots of questions, so if he is comfortable talking with you and asking about things talk with him. I had same situation and i think talking and telling the truth is better then getting questions answered from street talk or parents that are to scared to talk and use less words to explain. Dont be scared talk to him.

[Zachary G]

Well I'd be careful. Not sure how old you are, but he's 12. He's also curious, so answer his questions in a matter of fact way and only with what you are comfortable with. You don't want to get yourself into trouble.

I agree. Do what you feel comfortable with, but be mindful of his age so you dont get yourself in trouble. It seems there is a level of trust and respect there, so be the good cousin and answer his questions as best you can, and if you dont know, then tell him youd be glad to look it up for him and get back to him on it.

[jake1214]

It's probably better if someone close to him tells him facts, instead of him hearing stuff that's wrong.

[Coolteenboy]

Hes curious and maybe ur the only one he feels
free to ask u bout stuff-ask him if he has any
questions concerning his body he needs to talk
bout u will answer but b honest with him-as for
showing if u r comfortable with it then show him.

Yup. This sez it all.
Go for it, sounds like ure cuz needs some honest, worthwhile advice!

[niklas]

i guess it'll all depend on how comfortable you are with showing or discussing sex stuff with your cousin, it sounds like he's comfortable enough asking you questions so maybe he looks up to you a bit? i'd say only take things as far as your comfortable

[Atlantis]

Yup. This sez it all.
Go for it, sounds like ure cuz needs some honest, worthwhile advice!

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: