I was just kissed for the first time

[brandon9]

Okay so I'm 18, had never been kissed before, and this girl I started talking to like a week and a half ago literally just kissed me like 5 minutes ago (I'm at school and we were talking in the hallway).... I'm like so unsure how to feel, I was nervous as all fuck, and like I feel like I was really bad. It was quick but I was like so unsure of what to actually do, plus she kinda like used her tongue a bit and it threw me off. She knew beforehand that I had never done it before.

I'm like confused as fuck right now lol... I don't really know what to do with this, or what that might have just changed with her that I didn't think through, or what, like I'm hoping now she's not like "lets date" cause I need like a lot of time for that, this was kind of impulsive.... Anyone else ever experience something like this? I'm just like lost

[ska8er]

Id b walking on air if I got tongue
don't lose her-she seems to definitely
like u.

[brandon9]

Id b walking on air if I got tongue
don't lose her-she seems to definitely
like u.

I'm guessing this means the tongue is a good thing, lol. I just like had no clue what I was doing, she said I wasn't bad but I think I was.

I'm just woefully inexperienced with women lol.

[Devinsoccer]

Okay so I'm 18, had never been kissed before, and this girl I started talking to like a week and a half ago literally just kissed me like 5 minutes ago (I'm at school and we were talking in the hallway).... I'm like so unsure how to feel, I was nervous as all fuck, and like I feel like I was really bad. It was quick but I was like so unsure of what to actually do, plus she kinda like used her tongue a bit and it threw me off. She knew beforehand that I had never done it before.

I'm like confused as fuck right now lol... I don't really know what to do with this, or what that might have just changed with her that I didn't think through, or what, like I'm hoping now she's not like "lets date" cause I need like a lot of time for that, this was kind of impulsive.... Anyone else ever experience something like this? I'm just like lost

Cangrats. Don't loose her, this is a sign she likes you. She may be that type, you can tall her you want to go as friends to get to know eachother, or a regular date. GOOD LUCK BUDDY!

[ska8er]

I'm guessing this means the tongue is a good thing, lol. I just like had no clue what I was doing, she said I wasn't bad but I think I was.

I'm just woefully inexperienced with women lol.

She will teach u-u will get experience.;)


:santa::tree:

[Microcosm]

I suppose it's possible that she just wanted to see what your reaction would be. I kissed someone but I've never done tongue. That seems kind of awkward tbh but I'd try it. :D

Maybe she's just trying to build up

to the real

Christmas present.

[Uniquemind]

Ummm what was the context leading up to the aforementioned kiss?

Like did you anticipate it coming or was it more like private moment she grabbed your face and planted one. Because most people regardless of gender would be caught off guard by the latter.

My advice is to relax and just mirror what the other person is doing, and if you don't like it back off and say stop or hold-up.

[brandon9]

Ummm what was the context leading up to the aforementioned kiss?

Like did you anticipate it coming or was it more like private moment she grabbed your face and planted one. Because most people regardless of gender would be caught off guard by the latter.

My advice is to relax and just mirror what the other person is doing, and if you don't like it back off and say stop or hold-up.

Like it was anticipated, I knew it was going to happen but I was like still unprepared for it.

I suppose it's possible that she just wanted to see what your reaction would be. I kissed someone but I've never done tongue. That seems kind of awkward tbh but I'd try it. :D

Maybe she's just trying to build up

to the real

Christmas present.

Lmao that'd be even worse for me not knowing what to do, I'd be even more lost if that came to pass.

She will teach u-u will get experience.;)


:santa::tree:

She asked me today "Can I kiss you again?" in a text and I haven't yet responded to it because I'm like, unsure (plus being at school, it makes it like strange I guess idk). I'm not opposed to her like at all, I'm just super unsure about myself lol.

Cangrats. Don't loose her, this is a sign she likes you. She may be that type, you can tall her you want to go as friends to get to know eachother, or a regular date. GOOD LUCK BUDDY!

Thanks lol. I want to take stuff slowly, that's just how I am now after certain past things, so I'm like scared she's 20 steps ahead of me.

[Devinsoccer]

brandon9 Just tell her your boundaries. If she likes you than she should respect the boundaries.

[ClaraWho]

Okay so I'm 18, had never been kissed before, and this girl I started talking to like a week and a half ago literally just kissed me like 5 minutes ago (I'm at school and we were talking in the hallway).... I'm like so unsure how to feel, I was nervous as all fuck, and like I feel like I was really bad. It was quick but I was like so unsure of what to actually do, plus she kinda like used her tongue a bit and it threw me off. She knew beforehand that I had never done it before.

I'm like confused as fuck right now lol... I don't really know what to do with this, or what that might have just changed with her that I didn't think through, or what, like I'm hoping now she's not like "lets date" cause I need like a lot of time for that, this was kind of impulsive.... Anyone else ever experience something like this? I'm just like lost

Stop leading her on if you've no intentions of dating her, maybe she isn't after that, but at least COMMUNICATE so you both know where you stand.

There's no point in asking a bunch of strangers to read her mind or relive the experience to answer for you. Take a walk with her and talk. Lay out how you feel and be an adult about it, you're 18.

This can end well or badly, it's really down to how you handle it now!

~ Clara

[brandon9]

Stop leading her on if you've no intentions of dating her, maybe she isn't after that, but at least COMMUNICATE so you both know where you stand.

There's no point in asking a bunch of strangers to read her mind or relive the experience to answer for you. Take a walk with her and talk. Lay out how you feel and be an adult about it, you're 18.

This can end well or badly, it's really down to how you handle it now!

~ Clara

I mean I do think I am going to date her, that's the thing. I'm just not ready to take that step yet, but if things stay good for another few weeks I would definitely be comfortable with it.