Boyfriend

[TeenBoy2002]

Hi,
I don't know what to do really. So I'm a boy and I'm in quite secure relationship with another boy. He brought up about doing having sex with him or sharing a bed with him. I do like him and have sexual urges towards him but I don't know if I'm ready for sex with him yet? Would sharing a bed be okay but trying not to do anything sexual?

Thanks

[Tpyro]

Hey. Do what feels comfortable not pushed to do anything. Tell him you want to go slow start with sleepover and when you feel like it you can move to next step. Theres nothing wrong taking things slow also being at home with parents can add some hesitation being caught.He might be just as nervous.have you seen each other nude or have you been physical?

[Flapjack]

Pleaseeee just be honest and open with him buddy!! He will understand and it will also avoid him getting the wrong idea and thinking you you don't like him!! You can share beds and not do anything sexual and I have done it with many friends but just make it clear :)

[Just JT]

The biggest thing in any relationship is communication. Just let him know how you feel as he let you know. If he truly cares for you he'll understand not pressure you and wait patiently. And I find nothing wrong with sharing a bed together. I've spent some of the most intimate times with my guy in bed and doing nothing sexual at all.

To be in bed with someone, nude or pj's or what ever, your alone, open, vulnerable to each other, inside each other's personal space, up close and personal. It's a time sp spend together, say things you just wouldn't say any other time. Cause it's not the right time or place. Or say nothing at all, cuddle, spoon, and sleep in each other's arms. There's no better feeling than knowing your that close to someone and having no boundaries you risk being crossed and no expectations, and just be together in peace alone.

Enjoy bro

[ska8er]

If u r asking then u aren't sure-don't let him
pressure u into something that u have second
doubts bout but do talk this over with him and
if he honors ur relationship he will b understand-
ing. Sharing a bed is having sex-if u want to share
a bed without sex I guess u two can just cuddle and
warm urselves but his interest is in sex so I don't c
where that will go.

[datboijoey]

Hi,
I don't know what to do really. So I'm a boy and I'm in quite secure relationship with another boy. He brought up about doing having sex with him or sharing a bed with him. I do like him and have sexual urges towards him but I don't know if I'm ready for sex with him yet? Would sharing a bed be okay but trying not to do anything sexual?

Thanks

Don't do it unless your ready to. He should respect you or it's rape!

[jamie_n5]

You will have to make that decision on your own man. You know sharing a bed will be much more sexually tempting. You do what you feel is best and what you are ready for. Your virginity is a very special thing. You should loose it to someone you deeply care for.

[Bluebyrd]

If you're unsure then I recommend not doing it. It would be fine to share a bed without doing anything sexual though. I'm sure he'd understand, considering that you're in a secure relationship.

[Zachary G]

dont do anything that you arent comfortable with. I dont see there being any problem with you sharing a bed with him and not doing anything sexual, if thats how you want to do things. Communication is key in any relationship, so you should talk with him about your expectations and fears. If hes a decent person, I am sure he will understand where you are coming from.