Addicted

[PinkFloyd]

I've contemplated posting this thread for the past two weeks or so because I'm not sure if it's something that would be okay for me to post. It's certainly not against the rules of the site; I'm talking about me personally. This isn't me as a person. I also don't really know what sub-forum this thread would go in. I'd say it's a mix of P101, Relationships and Dating, and even Mental Illnesses.

To get on with the thread, my girlfriend and I are addicted to sex. I've been dating my her for roughly two years and two months. Our feelings for each other have been steadily growing, and still are. We certainly don't use each other for sex, but I feel like we do it way more than we should. My love life is great, but my brain keeps wanting sex even when it's obvious my body can't keep up. My girlfriend is the same way. Her body can't keep up with her sexual desires. Of course, this isn't to say that the sex is bad. Honestly, the physical act is great, and we come together as one emotionally. I suppose my main worry is that one of us (or both of us) are going to overdo it and something bad will happen to her physically or she'll get pregnant. I mean, we always use a condom, but I feel like it's only a matter of time before one breaks on us.

I just need help with this and Don't know what to do.

[jamie_n5]

I don't think I would call you two addicted to sex. You are a young couple in love and are just very sexually active. I think most young couples are very active. My boyfriend and I are virtually the same as you guys are. There are times when we can't see each other for a while and when we get together we will spend a day and have sex multiple times. Your sex life is normal for you. You can't wear out your sexual organs. You may get sore for a while from heavy or multiple sex but that would be it. So as long as you two are happy and enjoy each other sexually and emotionally then you are just being yourselves and there is nothing wrong with that.

[ska8er]

I think the main thing is the pregnancy thought
of it all and not the addiction-condom or not. I
think just thinking bout that should put a damper
on all the sex. All is good that the two of u r in love
and the sex is great but if u r not ready if an accident
will happen then the two of u should try and cool it.

[pjones]

you could try masturbating together instead of having intercourse

[Anniebanannie]

Would she go on the pill?

[ska8er]

you could try masturbating together instead of having intercourse

Good idea-my ex and I engaged in it and it
was good. Idk if with all the sex if masturbation
will do it for them-it would b like taking an aspirin
instead of a narcotic.

[PinkFloyd]

I don't think I would call you two addicted to sex. You are a young couple in love and are just very sexually active. I think most young couples are very active. My boyfriend and I are virtually the same as you guys are. There are times when we can't see each other for a while and when we get together we will spend a day and have sex multiple times. Your sex life is normal for you. You can't wear out your sexual organs. You may get sore for a while from heavy or multiple sex but that would be it. So as long as you two are happy and enjoy each other sexually and emotionally then you are just being yourselves and there is nothing wrong with that.

Thanks man, that's awesome advice. I was afraid we would rupture something, but now that you mention it, it would be pretty weird if the human body could be damaged from having too much sex.

I think the main thing is the pregnancy thought
of it all and not the addiction-condom or not. I
think just thinking bout that should put a damper
on all the sex. All is good that the two of u r in love
and the sex is great but if u r not ready if an accident
will happen then the two of u should try and cool it.

Yeah, I'm thinking about steadily slowing down.

you could try masturbating together instead of having intercourse

That's an interesting idea.

Would she go on the pill?

Her and I have explored many different female birth control methods, but she doesn't want to go on any of them because her mother told her a horror story of a friend who went on the pill and became completely sterile. It's probably as fake as the Autism-vaccine link from 1998, but she's still scared and I'm not going to pressure her to do something she doesn't want to do.

[rioo]

I do swimming regularly on public pool now, and I've lot times see couple doing swim exercise together. I think thats also good to release energy if u guys doing someting different activity together, sport or anything outside ur place.

[PinkFloyd]

I do swimming regularly on public pool now, and I've lot times see couple doing swim exercise together. I think thats also good to release energy if u guys doing someting different activity together, sport or anything outside ur place.

Wow, I never thought of doing something like that. I'd have to try it out, but one thing that would be worrisome would be the type of energy that we'd release. I'm sure swim exercises have tons of benefits and release energy, but what if it doesn't release sexual energy?

[rioo]

Wow, I never thought of doing something like that. I'd have to try it out, but one thing that would be worrisome would be the type of energy that we'd release. I'm sure swim exercises have tons of benefits and release energy, but what if it doesn't release sexual energy?

Alright, let me ask this important question, Are you living together?
Watching porn regularly or more?

I used have good friend who like to share his sexual life with me, and then I found gigabyte porn on his computer folder. I really can't give him good advice or anything, sex is so personal.
Maybe this is good time to start thinking about the big picture in ur relationship.

[NZPerson]

As said above exercise is a great way to chill the hormones, whether or not your with your partner for it i dont think it matters. Probs a good chance to get fit by channeling your energy to diffrent places.