Am I a slut? Honest answers please

[TheLoudAndDrunkOne]

So I was at a house party last night and I got really drunk and did some drugs and long story short I ended up in a room having sex with five guys. I know what I did was kind of slutty and cheap, but it felt kind of good, and I really liked it. I'm worried that this makes me a cheap slut though, even though I'm a really nice person irl and don't want to be seen as that. Even though it felt kind of uncomfortable having all those dicks at once I actually really liked it, so does this make me a slut? Are only guys allowed to have sex with more than one person?

Content removed. Please no sexual storytelling, thank you. ~Elysium

[ImAurora]

You were under the influence of alcohol and various drugs, so I'd say you weren't fully in control of yourself. I gotta ask, though... what's a 13 year old doing at a party with drugs, alcohol, and a bunch of 17 and 18 year olds?

[Elysium]

I think that double standard is stupid. You are free to do with your body as you please; it is your body and nobody else's, and no one should be concerned with labeling you or criticizing you for what you choose to do with it. As long as you're safe and comfortable, you're absolutely fine. There is nothing wrong with being adventurous or promiscuous. You are not defined by one event, you're not defined by your sex life. You are still a nice person, and that goes for anyone and everyone.

[Brighteyes]

Oh my God...Has this old chestnut reared up yet again?

Unless am very much mistaken it must be several years old by now!

[Taryn98]

The issue here isn't if you are a slut. The issue is why is a 13 year old at a party drunk and on drugs? I think you need to reevaluate your decision making skills.

[NotShortButFunsized]

Yeah I'm gonna side with the others, what you consensually do with your body is up to you. However, the fact you're thirteen, drinking, and doing drugs while having that sex, (all of which is illegal,) seriously clouds your judgment and can really screw up your life way into the future

[hotgirlwtits]

Yeah I'm gonna side with the others, what you consensually do with your body is up to you. However, the fact you're thirteen, drinking, and doing drugs while having that sex, (all of which is illegal,) seriously clouds your judgment and can really screw up your life way into the future

I can't imagine a 13 year old doing this I mean sex is one thing but drugs and underage drinking are a few pet peeves of mine, I would seriously rethink your life altering decisions.

[ninja789]

no but I think you should maybe change your party scene slightly

[Pensive]

Lol I don't believe any of this.

What I will say though, is it is utterly pathetic that the moderator just defended illegal drug use, illegal drinking, unprotected sex with multiple strangers - and worst of all - Child Abuse.

I knew this forum was fucked up - but I didn't realise the mods were sick and part of the problem. Go ahead and abuse your power to threaten or ban me. Repulsive.

[ImAurora]

Lol I don't believe any of this.

What I will say though, is it is utterly pathetic that the moderator just defended illegal drug use, illegal drinking, unprotected sex with multiple strangers - and worst of all - Child Abuse.

I knew this forum was fucked up - but I didn't realise the mods were sick and part of the problem. Go ahead and abuse your power to threaten or ban me. Repulsive.

She didn't encourage it. She simply said not to care what anyone else thinks and what matters is that the individual doing it is happy.

[Elysium]

Lol I don't believe any of this.

What I will say though, is it is utterly pathetic that the moderator just defended illegal drug use, illegal drinking, unprotected sex with multiple strangers - and worst of all - Child Abuse.

I knew this forum was fucked up - but I didn't realise the mods were sick and part of the problem. Go ahead and abuse your power to threaten or ban me. Repulsive.
Whoa there. Take a deep breath. I don't in any way endorse illegal anything, but you have to realize that people are going to do illegal things anyway and if they're going to, at least they should be safe. And I didn't comment whatsoever on the legality of the situation, as that would not have been constructive or helpful given the topic. (How does questioning whether or not she should be doing drugs/alcohol pertain to the question of whether or not she's a slut, and furthermore, how is it at all helpful?) Personally, I've never touched any drugs or alcohol in my life and have no plan to. However, my personal opinions on doing these things are in no way relevant.

I would also like to know, actually, how you can say I defended unprotected sex when I specifically mentioned, "as long as you're safe and comfortable." Or, actually, where you got any of these accusations from. That's a pretty big leap to make.

Anyhow, if you have an issue with the forum or with moderators, please take it up via PM, don't make a scene and post about it. I will not, however, threaten you, since there's no reason for really doing that until you start breaking rules, and I will not ban you, as I do not have the power to do that and even if I did, I have no grounds to do so.

[Harley Quinn]

Lol I don't believe any of this.

What I will say though, is it is utterly pathetic that the moderator just defended illegal drug use, illegal drinking, unprotected sex with multiple strangers - and worst of all - Child Abuse.

I knew this forum was fucked up - but I didn't realise the mods were sick and part of the problem. Go ahead and abuse your power to threaten or ban me. Repulsive.

You there, you need to chill. It's utterly pathetic that you think that someone having an opinion on something was fucked up. We're not going to ban you for your opinion, I'm not sure what or who you think we are. It's okay if you think that someone is in the wrong, but what you're doing isn't that. I didn't realise moderators couldn't have an opinion on something, ever. Wow someone stated a different opinion than you're used to, let's just complain that it was a moderator that did it because why the fuck not. No, stop.

[watermelon_pineapple]

Well you can do what you want with your body have sex with as many guys as you want but your 13 why are you at a party with older guys and having sex with them! Next time i would think about the chooses more