Semen

[Tomobon115]

Ok I basically have 2 questions about my semen first I have only just started ejaculating and it is a see through fluid but I usually ejaculate about 3-7 seconds after orgasm- if I keep going,also when I ejaculate semen comes out- I can tell because it is slippery and very sticky but then if I keep going for less than a second I pee uncontrollably any help?

Also I'm having uncontrollable slight voice breaks at the start of one in six sentences just little silent dips

Double posts merged. ~Lost Horizon

[Vegas2933]

First of all. What age are you? Second of all. Everyone is different and goes through puberty at different speeds and stages.

[Tomobon115]

I'm 14

[Kory123]

Okay
Answer 1) if you keep on jacking after you orgasm and you start to pee, I can assure you that's normal. It happens to me too and I'm 14. Urine comes out as a way to help clean your urethra so cum doesn't stay in it, it's natural :)

Answer 2) your voice breaks, it's okay we all go through it. It's a part of manhood and embrace it. It means your still going through puberty and your gonna grow. There's really no fix to that unless you consider just waiting it out or to go mute. I suggest waiting till you get your man voice ;).

Notes: congratulations on cumming. Aye it's a great feeling lol. Once it happens, you'll never stop. Anyway, PLEASE pay attention in language arts. There's so much confusing mumbo jumbo

Best wishes

[ska8er]

After u orgaz and shoot or ooze cum there
will b more seepage if u continue to jerk cause
u r still cleaning out ur bone-it is normal and the
peeing right after is the systems way of cleansing
any left over cum-it could come right after or a few
minutes later. As for the cracking voice u will continue
to have it off an on as u go thu puberty-we all go thru
it and it is normal and nothing u can do to change it.

[Hermes]

...but then if I keep going for less than a second I pee uncontrollably any help?

How do you know this is pee? Semen is made up of contributions from various glands with the largest contributions by volume being from the prostate gland and the seminal vesicles. Normally it is all mixed together but I am just exploring the idea that maybe that is not happening in your case and one gland is releasing its contribution slightly before the other.

If it is pee, we have already established in another thread that needing to pee after cumming is quite normal. For me, though, the need may not be immediate and it isn't any more urgent than any other time so I have adequate time to relax for a short while in the afterglow, wipe up, get up and go to the bathroom before peeing.

On the other hand I find as soon as I have finished cumming that my penis gets too sensitive to continue stroking and I am no longer horny so don't really want to anyway. That is something that generally doesn't happen to someone having dry orgasms - it is possible to continue and maybe get a second orgasm. What I don't know, and can't remember, is how quickly after becoming able to ejaculate the post-orgasmic sensitivity and refractory period starts to happen. Maybe not immediately, i.e. despite being able to ejaculate perhaps you continue to stroke longer than most people would post-orgasm?

It could just be a coordination thing and will probably sort itself out as you develop. In a bit more detail, there is a tube called the urethra that runs from your bladder, through your prostate gland and then along the length of your penis to the tip. This is the tube that carries both pee and semen out. To control things there are two sphincters which are effectively valves, the upper one between your bladder and the prostate and the lower one between the prostate and the base of your penis. The upper one you cannot control voluntarily - it is automatic. The lower one you can. When you need to pee the upper one opens automatically but you can delay peeing by keeping the bottom one closed - that's what toilet training as a toddler is about and you choose to open the lower one once you're stood in front of the toilet so at that point they are both open so there is passage all the way from your bladder to the end of you penis. When you ejaculate the upper sphincter remains closed to stop the pee and semen mixing together. The semen gathers in the bit of the urethra inside the prostate gland, between the two sphincters. This is the "point of no return" because once the glands have released the semen into there they can't take it back. Next the lower sphincter opens and muscular contractions push the semen out of your penis.

So, to avoid peeing spontaneously immediately after cumming what needs to happen is the lower sphincter needs to close before the upper one opens. Normally being aroused ensures the upper sphincter stays closed - once your arousal has subsided it is free to open again if your bladder happens to be full or nearly full. So one way to avoid spontaneously peeing would be to make sure your bladder is empty before you start - hopefully then the upper sphincter will stay closed giving more time for the lower one to close too. Other than that it maybe a case of being patient for the co-ordination between these two sphincters to improve. While you wait it would be worth masturbating somewhere where it won't matter if you pee.

[Hermes]

Also I'm having uncontrollable slight voice breaks at the start of one in six sentences just little silent dips.

That is probably a co-ordination issue too and one that will improve with use, not remaining mute, in the same way that improve co-ordination of any other part of the body by practice rather than inactivity.

To delve into technical detail we generally have two "halves" to our voice, usually called registers. The lower one, called chest voice, is the one we usually use for speaking and it has quite a robust sound. In this register the main mechanism for controlling pitch are the vocal folds (chords) which are actually muscles and can tension themselves from the inside. The upper one, called head voice, is generally only used for singing and has a much thinner sound. In this register the main mechanism for controlling pitch is other muscles in the larynx that stretch the vocal folds from the outside. Between the two is an awkward area called the passagio - a range of pitches that can be produced either way, but not so easily either way. A trained singer will generally have worked to unify those registers, i.e. use a little bit of the head voice action even in chest voice and vice versa so the passagio is not so obvious. As you voice gets deeper obviously the lowest pitch you can make a sound on in chest voice will become lower, the highest pitch you can make a sound on in head voice will become lower, and the passagio will become lower in pitch too. All of this is well known theory from the teaching of singing.

Now, for a personal observation. The squeaks as ones voice changes sound a bit like flipping into head voice occasionally when you had intended to speak in chest voice. That means trying to speak on a pitch that corresponds to the passagio - that awkward bit. That is more likely to happen if your brain remembers the pitch you normally speak at and tries to keep to that pitch even as your larynx is growing and it tends to occur more often when you need to "speak out" for example reading aloud as when you raise the volume you tend to unconsciously raise the pitch too. If this is the explanation you'd expect trained singers to have less trouble with squeaks as their voices change, because they are able to negotiate the passagio, and that does seem to be the case. One solution would be reorient your speaking voice firmly back into chest voice so you could try exploring the range of pitches your voice is now capable of and see if that helps. It is best to stay away from the very extremes and don't do anything that feels strained.

[alohakanaka808]

You're starting puberty, don't worry about it. It's normal

[Zachary G]

Sounds like you have a lot of things going on with your body, but none of is sounds abnormal to me. It sounds like something we have all gone through at some point in our puberty. Youre experiencing normal things, so dont stress it. Keep enjoying your body and watching yourself develop and grow.