Has she destroyd everything? Or is it me

[ariel22]

Hello fellas.. I will make a long story short.
Im 17 years old, she is 15. We dated, got into bed (im her first though)
I have been told by her by a variety of ways that i have a small penis. That was harsh, being told by a non experienced virgin i have a small penis. I didnt had any problems with my size until her. I was ok and no girl said this cruel thing before. 5 times ! At the fifth time i wanted to break up but them i thought its silly because it didnt hurt me that bad. Now we are trying to have sex and im afraid she wont feel it ! Maybe it is small?? I have 5.9" in length and 4.7" in girth. Is there a chance she wont enjoy it? Is that small ? My confidence became ZERO. I feel like a women next to her. Help me please.

[ska8er]

Ur size is not small-she was a virgin-she
maybe had this idea that all guys have large
power tools but she got disappointed. Drop
her ur never going to please her. Find some
one who is gonna appreciate u for u and not
put u down.

[pjones]

there is absolutely nothing wrong with the size of your penis. as @sk8ter says, the problem is hers. tell her to knock off watching porn sites as you say goodbye. she doesn't appear to respect you as a person if her concerns are about trying to make you feel inadequate about your penis

[Microcosm]

http://www.embarrassingproblems.com/problem/penis-problems/penis-size :

Firstly, the University of California researchers measured the penises of 80 normal men and published their results in the Journal of Urology in 1996. They found that:


without an erection (limp), the average length was 8.8 cm (just under 3.5 inches)
the average flaccid (limp) penis could be stretched to 12.4 cm (about 4.75 inches)
the average length when erect was 12.9 cm (just over 5 inches).



Apparently she's just wrong bc you're above average.

She's probably just fucking with you. Plus, I know it's supposed to be a big point of self-esteem to have a big penis, but who really cares?

If it really makes you feel bad, you could try to compensate by muscle-building. Or you could focus on not letting it get you down because ultimately it doesn't matter much.

In terms of sex, just uhh... Do your best my man.

[Uniquemind]

She's probably used to seeing freaks on omegle and other online sources for visuals.

Just go with the flow, and after the performance, then see if the relationship is okay. Seeing is one thing, participating and experiencing is another, so unless she already knows she likes em big (cuz in that case she isn't a real virgin or she knows she has a preference for bigger toys) then evaluate the relationship on if the sexual incompatibility affects the foundation of the relationship. At that point I advise breaking up if it causes problems.

[jamie_n5]

You are a very normal and average sized male. Maybe the thing to do is ask her how you can pleasure her more. After all it is more how you use it than the size. Communicate with her and try doing different things. You know we can't get into any detail on here but you will figure it out.