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xban
February 22nd, 2014, 09:57 AM
I have been in a relationship for 2 years, broke up recently. We decides to stay friends. When we were together, we were very much in love.

I feel she is the love of my life.

When I ask her if we have a chance to get back together later, she says "maybe".

Do you think there is a chance we get back together?

I know right now, she just want to have more space for herself and do stuff on her own. I'm 19, she's 18.

death-metal
February 22nd, 2014, 10:09 AM
Just be friends for now. If you guys really dated for two years then she'd have feelings for you and would like to give it another shot. Unless you did something really bad...

xban
February 22nd, 2014, 01:15 PM
It didn't really do something terrible, like cheating. I guess it was my personality, I was too overprotective and too sensitive.

Cygnus
February 22nd, 2014, 07:41 PM
Give it some time being just friends, talk to her from time to time as well, then if you feel it is right attempt getting back together however still give it some time.

xban
February 22nd, 2014, 07:50 PM
Give it some time being just friends, talk to her from time to time as well, then if you feel it is right attempt getting back together however still give it some time.

Thank you, it actually helps to hear that. When we broke up, I got into deep depression and tried to do stuff that would make my pain go away.

AlexOnToast
February 22nd, 2014, 08:01 PM
I would definitely say go for friendship, and see where that road takes you. These things do tend to take both time and consideration. I hope for the best for you :)

xban
February 22nd, 2014, 08:18 PM
I would definitely say go for friendship, and see where that road takes you. These things do tend to take both time and consideration. I hope for the best for you :)

Thanks for the answer, helped make me feel a bit better. I will give it time, anyway, it's school time, we supposedly have others things to worry about. :/

But she's just in my head every minutes. Took a sleeping pill last night to sleep for the first time. Oh god, so much pain :(

AlexOnToast
February 22nd, 2014, 08:20 PM
Thanks for the answer, helped make me feel a bit better.

Glad I could help, if only a little. It's essentially the only reason I'm on VT :)

radsniper
February 23rd, 2014, 05:25 AM
stay friends for now and if she still has feelings for you she will probably make the the first move so sit tight and hope for the best

xban
February 24th, 2014, 08:56 PM
But what does it mean when your ex wants to stay friends after breakup? Any advice from girls?