Ex gf

[TheHood]

So basicly I still like my ex.... But the thing is she's always flirting with this other guy and admits to lieing him. But then when this other guy isn't around she always flirts with me. And its confusing. And were always talking online. I'm pretty sure she's stringing me along. Using me as a backup or something? I dont 100% hate it. But it hurts. To constantly being lifted up and crushed again. I have no clue what to do. I've tried to get over her. But I just can't. :/ any advice?

[ClaraWho]

Well it's always interesting when people say 'I've tried to get over her', yet they are still in regular contact. In your case even worse, flirting. If you are serious about wanting to be happier, stop hurting yourself on purpose by having any contact with her. Cut all ties. It's the ONLY way to move on. And it takes time. These things are painful, but pain is only temporary.

~ Clara

[ska8er]

Shes a player and shes playing u. How do
u think the other guy she is flirting with feels
when she goes on to her next conquest-she will
b leaving casualties in her path.

[karenessi]

You already know everything and still hurting yourself. I think you should move on with your life. If you really want to get over her then you can do it no matter what happens.

[Microcosm]

I don't completely blame you. Once a strong connection is made with someone, it's tough to break it.

Still, only more pain is going to come out of this. If you tell her all of this and that you don't want to see her anymore, she will almost certainly get angry. This anger is going to make you feel like trash, but just know that it is for the best. After a while, you'll start to feel more in control of your personal relationships because of it.

[Cadanance00]

That girl is mean as hell. I know one like her. Get away and live your own life and get away from letting her mess with you. She gets some kind of satisfaction out of doing that to you and she's playing on your need for attention from her.

[jamie_n5]

It is sometimes hard to move on. I really think it is time for you to do that. Most people have many relationships before they find that right person.

[Just JT]

Next time you see her flirting with him walk up to the both of them and flirt with him as well

Watch for her response

Walk away