My best friend kissed my girlfriend

[Seraph]

Yesterday morrow I went to my best friend's house and saw him and my girlfriend kissing. They kissed for some moments but after that they looked at me, I smiled at them and said nothing. I knew that my best friend saw us kissing and having no girlfriend he felt forlorn; since my girlfriend's an empath, I theorize she might have kissed him to relieve him of his sorrows but I might be wrong.

I don't feel betrayed or as if she is cheating on me though, I actually felt joyous after seeing them kiss. The first feeling though was pity my friend had to lift his heels to kiss (he's 5'4" and my girlfriends 5'9"). My best friend is someone I oft call 'brother' and treat him the same. He's my age and my girlfriend's older than both.

I just asked my friend "How was that feeling?"

"Sweet" he replied, "I wish I had a girlfriend like yours, for you are blessed."

I love my friend like a little brother and I know he feels the same for me. But I want to ensure that this incident doesn't lead into the shadowy path, what would you do if you were in my stead?

[ClaraWho]

For if thy girlfriend should be frivolous with her flirtations, free with frolicking with such Gay abandon, then the loyalty of thine heart be fickle. Oh the excuses that we tend to weave, when it is one thyself whom is being deceived. I'm sure it would please your heart to entertain the pontification of her relieving his sorrows in more intimate ways, for as of present, he has no person of his own to provide relief. How blessed you are that your girlfriend doesn't feel loyalty and love are desirable relationship qualities!

~ Clara

[ska8er]

Ur girl is an empath-I take it as empathy as
ur best friend was forlorn and she was feeling
for him-that is bull-she wouldn't b kissing in
private-if she kissed him in front of u and told
u y then I would think nothing of it but keep an
eye on them. I caught my girlfriend flirting with
a football player after a game when she thought
I was not going to b there and the reason she
gave me was they lost the game and he was
crying-LOL poor baby-I caught her rubbing the
front of his pants-she was feeling for him too.
Watch ur girlfriend and ur best friend from now
on.

[jamie_n5]

I think your girlfriend was in deed just trying to comfort your buddy and let him know he is alright. If anything more happens like them totally making out with each other then that is definitely over the line and out of bounds. You will just have to see how things go with your girlfriend and you and with him. You might tell your girlfriend that was a nice gesture on her part to show some empathy toward your best friend and say I hope that was all you were doing. If she says yes that is what it was then drop the subject and see how the future plays out for all of you.