my friend told me he is gay, help.

[Tylor lakon]

I had a friend over yesterday and it was getting late so he called his mom and asked if he could stay the night, his mom said yes. Mid night came around and we decided to go to bed, I offered him a pair of boxer (I usually sleep naked but I have 3 pairs in case of sleepovers and stuff like that) he said no thanks, got completely naked tossed his clothes over the other side of the room and jumped into my bed, I stripped naked and grabbed a pair of boxers and he told me to man up and sleep naked like him, so i dropped the boxers and climbed into bed. At about 2:30 am I woke up to his erection poking me in the leg I pushed his dick away and he woke up and asked me if I was giving him a hand job I said no you dick was poking my leg. He said what ever and went back to sleep. At 10 am I woke up to the sound of my door closing, he said he needed to pee, he took his jeans off and was sitting naked in m chair and started jerking, that got me a little hard. I climbed out of be with a hard one and sat on my other chair turned on my computer and put some porn on, we jerked for about 15 minutes then he grabbed my dick and started jerking it and getting his face close to it, luckily for me dad knocled on the door, I shut the computer and we put on a pair of trunks each. Dad came in and told us he was about to have a shower and mom and my sister went out, when he left I turned my computers back on and my friend told me he was gay.
How do I react to this?
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him?
Should i do this again?
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this?

[itsthat0n3kid]

How do I react to this? It depends, how do you feel about it?
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him? not really, most boys do that one time or another.
Should i do this again? Only if youre comfortable with it, maybe itd be good to experiment if you want.
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this? definently not.

[frisbee25]

How do I react to this? You support him that's great he came out to you.
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him? No not at all you were exploring
Should i do this again? Only if you enjoyed it
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this? No

[Hundred Spirited God]

you act fine,if hes gay,hes gay
yes,your not suppose to do that with another male
no you shouldnt
no your not

[Tylor lakon]

To be honest i'm happy he told me first, because most of our friends are homophobic.

[Hundred Spirited God]

you act fine,if hes gay,hes gay
yes,your not suppose to do that with another male
no you shouldnt
no your not
(ignore,i accidentally double posted)

[sqishy]

How did you react? Didn't do anything wrong
Did you do anything wrong? I say no, it might actually have made him more comfortable to tell you he's gay, he might trust you more.
Should you do this again? That's up to you, if both of you are fine with it then it's ok.
Are you gay for being aroused? No.

If you're fine with it, then say so. If most of your friends are homophobic it will help him that he knows you're not.

[Ethe14]

Well nothing you did was wrong as long as you are ok with it. If anything you should support him coming out because it probably took him a lot of courage to say that.

[Boar]

How do I react to this? Support and tell him alright. Just act cool. The last thing he warns is for you to probably make a big deal about it. Treat him like you always have when you didn't know if he was gay or not. Don't be one of those people who stay away from their friends once they find out they were gay.
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him?No! I sort of wish I could do this with one of my friends.
Should i do this again?Sure! If you enjoyed it why not?
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this?Nope! You are just curious!

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[NickCollins]

How do I react to this?first off support him if your friends are homophobic he'll need someone who supports him
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with him and jerking with him? no theres nothing wrong with sleeping naked if he's fine with it, and in my mind theres nothing wrong with jerking with him
Should i do this again?if you liked it sure do it again
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this?no it dosen't mean that your gay you might be but thats for you to decide on your time

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[chrisjenkins]

You are worrying about it too much.

[frisbee25]

you act fine,if hes gay,hes gay
yes,your not suppose to do that with another male
no you shouldnt
no your not
(ignore,i accidentally double posted)

I have to disagree here why is he spouse to not do that with anther male and why should he not try it again? It does not make him gay unless he knows he is gay.

[Hundred Spirited God]

I have to disagree here why is he spouse to not do that with anther male and why should he not try it again? It does not make him gay unless he knows he is gay.

cause its a sin to,it says so in the bible

[frisbee25]

cause its a sin to,it says so in the bible

I'm only pointing this out there we're is proof there is a god besides a book that has been edited and fixed up

[ksdnfkfr]

cause its a sin to,it says so in the bible

Says that about calling yourself a "God" too.

[Hundred Spirited God]

Says that about calling yourself a "God" too.

first off,im not actually calling myself a god,its a title showing im good at rock

[Hundred Spirited God]

I'm only pointing this out there we're is proof there is a god besides a book that has been edited and fixed up

the earth,people,the galaxy are all things god created,back then,nothing existed,who do you think created everything then?

[frisbee25]

the earth,people,the galaxy are all things god created,back then,nothing existed,who do you think created everything then?

There science seriously. Religion was created to control people and take power from them. And if there were a good he would stop everything bad that is happening so ya no god

[radsniper]

don't react acknowledge his gayness and still respect him for who he is you are not gay guys wank off together all the time and are not gay

[ksdnfkfr]

first off,im not actually calling myself a god,its a title showing im good at rock

"You shall not misuse the name of God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses His name." Exodus 20:7

When Christians use Bible verses to tell others how to live their lives, I like it when they aren't braking them in the process i.e. makes your argument extremely weak.

[DeadEyes]

Says that about calling yourself a "God" too.

"You shall not misuse the name of God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses His name." Exodus 20:7

When Christians use Bible verses to tell others how to live their lives, I like it when they aren't breaking them in the process i.e. makes your argument extremely weak.

Ah, you are one sharp boy, homosexuality might be a sin, but as they say: vanity is the mother of all sins so that would be even more punishable.

[ksdnfkfr]

Ah, you are one sharp boy, homosexuality might be a sin, but as they say: vanity is the mother of all sins so that would be even more punishable.

To me it's a matter of how one wants to apply Bible verses and how easy it is to use (or misuse) them against anything or anyone.

[ConorM]

You should be glad he felt comfortable with you to tell you he is gay. Just support him that's the main thing and don't worry about whatever the bible says btw

[DeadEyes]

To me it's a matter of how one wants to apply Bible verses and how easy it is to use (or misuse) them against anything or anyone.

For sure, it was just amusing to see you had the eye to notice he was already misusing the name of god while preaching hehe.

That only shows how much people can pretend to judge others while doing wrong themselves, wheter it be wrong in a religious perspective, or just plain wrong.

[deregisterme]

How do I react to this? You support him that's great he came out to you.
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him? No not at all you were exploring
Should i do this again? Only if you enjoyed it
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this? No

I agree with this

To be honest i'm happy he told me first, because most of our friends are homophobic.

That's a very positive attitude. It's up to you if you just be there for him, or explore further. Don't be afraid to chat with him, and let him know that you're there for him.

[Tylor lakon]

Thank you to everyone, i'm straight but it was a nice experience, he told me he was sorry, but thankful that I accepted the fact that he is gay.

[Bmble_B]

I would say that its alright, I dont care what kind of sexuality you are. But do u, dont do me. If u know what I mean XD

[Shadow08200]

How do I react to this? Be happy that he came out to you first since your friends are homophobic. He trusts you.
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him? No, just normal boy stuff. Hormones can get the best of people for the good or bad.
Should i do this again? If you want to, it's fine.
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this? Nope

[mattcallsu]

How do you react to this? I don't see anything wrong about it, so you should react... Normally, I guess.
No, you didn't do anything wrong by sleeping with him. You're just experimenting, that's it.
You can do this again only if you want to. There's surely nothing wrong about it and, if you don't feel uncomfortable, you can go for it.
And for the last part, you MIGHT be gay, but you're just probably curious if you are attracted to girls

[NickCollins]

There science seriously. Religion was created to control people and take power from them. And if there were a good he would stop everything bad that is happening so ya no god

cause its a sin to,it says so in the bible

ok this is not your decision to make only god can jude us so shut up obviously god is ok with gays cause i'm still here and yeah i believe in god but also in science how do we know what the bible originally said it's been translated and i wouldn't doubt changed

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[frisbee25]

the earth,people,the galaxy are all things god created,back then,nothing existed,who do you think created everything then?

One of my best friends is gay do you think I care he kisses boys not really he is happy and in love people that are heavily realities don't believe into the same love everybody else does

[LunarScorpio]

How do I react to this? Well, you probably stopped him from panicking too much, it must
Did i do anything wrong by sleeping nude with his and jerking with him? No, curiousity and you probably made him feel better
Should i do this again? Your choice
Am I gay for being aroused by him doing this? I wouldn't think so

[Elysium]

This thread's gone way off-topic and the OP's situation appears to have already been resolved, so I'm going to lock this. :locked:

OP, if you'd rather this topic stay open, shoot me a PM, please.