Guys opinion on this

[Zenos]

Ok guys i'm asking you as one guy to another.

How much do you value your friendship with your guy friends?

I mean if for example you and your friend (thats a guy) are also friend with a girl,both you and the girl knows tat he's in love with her,and she decides she wants you in her bed. Would you sleep with her,or would you bring up the fact your best bro is in love with her and that it would be wrong for you to sleep with her considering how he feels about her?

I was recently put in that position and because I know how my friend feels about her,wouldn't sleep with her,and in turn she called me everything in the book up one side and down the other side,saying I wasn't a real man etc etc all because I know how my feind felt about her and I have loyalty to my friends.

Needless to say she turned into a real bitch,and did everything she could to detsry my friendship and would have succedded if her sister had not stepped up and told my friend just what was going on .


So given the choice being loyal to your friend,or risking your friendship with him by sleeping with a girl you know he's in love with what yould you have done?

[Hermes96]

even us gays go with the bro code you did the right thing

[Zenos]

even us gays go with the bro code you did the right thing

I know but where I live at a lot of guys my own age are trying to down me because I did the right thing.

[AlexOnToast]

Friendship, good friendship, is one of the most important things to me in life. There is little I would be willing to jeopardize a true friendship for.
Altho I can't honestly say how the situation would work out if, say, I was truly in love with the same girl that my friend also cares for. It would definitely work out with someone being hurt unfortunately.

[Hermes96]

hey if they're dising you for doing right thing i know it's hard believe me but take the moral high ground on this one shes not worth it

[Zenos]

hey if they're dising you for doing right thing i know it's hard believe me but take the moral high ground on this one shes not worth it

Well from what I have heard their dissing me has lead to more then a few of them losing their girl friends after the gf found out how shallow they are,so hey karmas working

[PinkFloyd]

You were following the bro code that very much is a real thing. I'd do exactly what you did and say no. However, it would take a ;lot for me to say no though.

[Boar]

Ok guys i'm asking you as one guy to another.

How much do you value your friendship with your guy friends?

I mean if for example you and your friend (thats a guy) are also friend with a girl,both you and the girl knows tat he's in love with her,and she decides she wants you in her bed. Would you sleep with her,or would you bring up the fact your best bro is in love with her and that it would be wrong for you to sleep with her considering how he feels about her?

I was recently put in that position and because I know how my friend feels about her,wouldn't sleep with her,and in turn she called me everything in the book up one side and down the other side,saying I wasn't a real man etc etc all because I know how my feind felt about her and I have loyalty to my friends.

Needless to say she turned into a real bitch,and did everything she could to detsry my friendship and would have succedded if her sister had not stepped up and told my friend just what was going on .


So given the choice being loyal to your friend,or risking your friendship with him by sleeping with a girl you know he's in love with what yould you have done?

You did the right thing. She was turning into a real jerk. Just leave her. Doesn't sound like she was your "friend" anyways. I would tell your friend. If you don't that's understandable.

[Zenos]

You did the right thing. She was turning into a real jerk. Just leave her. Doesn't sound like she was your "friend" anyways. I would tell your friend. If you don't that's understandable.

her sister told him what was happening,and I never heard him say a foul word in my life,and he said stuff that had her and the girl that tried to get me in bed's father whose a navy seal hanging his head to keep people from seeing him blush,and her dad can say some stuff.

In the end she ran crying from her front room and me and my bro just walked right out the front door.

I remember one thing he said that dropped her jaw was " girl I'd rather have been born gay then touch you with a penis..any penis at that"

[Boar]

Good. Hope you never see one of those kind of girls again.

[AlanPeanuts]

You made the right choice bro. I had a similar situation, except instead of wanting to just have sex with me, she also wanted to have a relationship with me. I didn't realize my friend liked her, so I went ahead and went out with her. Later I found out my friend liked her when she was trying to convince him to cheat on me with her, and it ended up being a convoluted situation where she was using both of us to try to get with a mutual friend of both of ours! Needless to say she was branded a slut, but some of her girlfriends still try to badmouth us.

[alecbramham]

If you know that your friend fancies her, then I would, instead of brushing her off and telling her no, tell her why instead. This could reduce the comments that you get, and if she ends up twisting the story, then you should warn your friend about it.

[Elysium]

Questions for Both :arrow: Family and Friends

[JamesSuperBoy]

Life can be complex - you be how you want.

[John566]

You did the right thing man. Bros before ho's lol. Jokes aside, she's not worth it and you stuck by your friend. That's what's important. Good job.