View Full Version : Masturbating in the shower
Kory123
November 12th, 2016, 09:40 PM
I read about how guys experience their first orgasm in the shower whereas I received mine while masturbating in bed. For some reason no matter how hard I try, I cannot orgasm in a shower while sitting, standing, or even laying down. I can get close but never over the edge to where I cum. Anyone else experience this or know why? I even tried watching porn and laying down
NZPerson
November 12th, 2016, 09:53 PM
It takes me longer in the shower and i had my first in the shower but i do it in bed mostly
Orgo
November 12th, 2016, 10:14 PM
Yeah i have to work really hard to wank and cum stood up. I've always done it in bed though so I guess my body isn't used to it.
Aussieboy16
November 12th, 2016, 10:35 PM
I can't cum in the shower either
ska8er
November 13th, 2016, 11:38 AM
I don't like it standing up but maybe
u r not giving urself enough time to
cum-its takes me awhile before I feel
an orgasm coming.
pjones
November 13th, 2016, 12:13 PM
it does take me longer in the shower but the orgasm is usually more intense for me
Muddy Sneakers
November 13th, 2016, 12:39 PM
Definitely easier to do it lying down or sitting down, for some reason. And I hate doing it in the shower- sometimes I've done it in the shower just to be quick and clean although it doesn't seem sexy that way maybe because i think of the shower as a place to get clean. Seems more of a turn on to do it in bed in boxerbriefs or sitting down in jeans or whatever.
anyway it's all a matter of personal preference so don't worry about it if one place or position seems more or less desirable.
Kyle37
November 13th, 2016, 12:48 PM
I can orgasm in the shower, I just don't do it very often. Much prefer the bed.
steellord321
November 13th, 2016, 01:58 PM
could be a few reasons, at least for me it is
not used to standing while jerking
too much pressure, in a hurry cause parents give me crap for using hot water long or others gotta use shower in morning too
simply more difficult to jerk when your penis and your hand is wet
Brightwolf
November 13th, 2016, 02:36 PM
I had my first in the shower. But not standing up. You might be trying to rush things, and it's harder to grip when you're wet. But that's just my experience.
Hermes
November 13th, 2016, 06:11 PM
I read about how guys experience their first orgasm in the shower whereas I received mine while masturbating in bed...
Where did you read that? I guess the writer may have assumed most guys realise that touching their penis feels good from touching it to wash it, which would presumably be in the shower, and that therefore naturally the first time of continuting to orgasm would also happen in the shower.
Or maybe the author assumed that all boys would want to prioritise being clean over having fun and would therefore want to restrict masturbating to the shower.
I don't think either of these is true. I discovered masturbation in bed and that is where I usually do it.
For some reason no matter how hard I try, I cannot orgasm in a shower while sitting, standing, or even laying down. I can get close but never over the edge to where I cum.
I can cum in the shower but it takes longer and seems much harder work. I much prefer bed which is much more relaxing. It is supposed to be a pleasure, not something you have to work hard at.
everlong
November 13th, 2016, 06:15 PM
Same thing here. I only did it once, it took me forever, and the orgasm was barely noticeable.
Kevgpdx
November 13th, 2016, 06:18 PM
I jerk off in the shower sometimes, but I agree that it takes a little longer standing up.
Falcons_11
November 13th, 2016, 06:42 PM
My first time was in bed too. I can cum in the shower but, like some of you all, it takes longer. I also have j/o taking a bath too. That takes long too.
niklas
November 13th, 2016, 09:42 PM
I had my first orgasm in bed. I sometimes masturbate in the shower, but to be honest it's not my favorite place to do it.
bojack
November 14th, 2016, 03:38 PM
Some of my first few were in the shower, but yeah, it does take longer. less friction i guess
zzzzzzzzzz
November 14th, 2016, 03:50 PM
I don't like J/O standing up, so don't do it in the shower
ComfortableInChaos
November 14th, 2016, 06:01 PM
I guess jerking it in bed feels more comfortable and relaxing, so it's easier for you to actually reach an orgasm. Idk, it's like that for me too. I don't usually jerk it in the shower anymore, usually I'm in bed doing it
hairy balls
November 15th, 2016, 06:03 AM
I had my first shoot in a bath tub
hairy balls
November 15th, 2016, 06:07 AM
I like to mastrubate in my bed
Don Giovanni
November 15th, 2016, 10:24 AM
I like to jerk off with shampoo in the shower. But i prefer my bed
ThekidErik
November 24th, 2016, 12:56 PM
I can do it but it just takes 10000 years to get an orgasm
wlclteenager
November 24th, 2016, 04:02 PM
I prefer to jack off in bed, more comfortable.
Innuendo
November 24th, 2016, 04:43 PM
I find it hard to cum in the shower also it's kinda weird
brandon9
November 24th, 2016, 04:51 PM
Doing it in the shower is not nearly as pleasurable for me as it is to do it somewhere else. It takes a lot longer, I find the feelings of sensitivity are considerably less powerful, and the notion of cleaning up being easier in the shower makes zero sense to me because the few times I have done it in the shower, everything just congeals and sticks together and its harder to clean up than if I'd just done it somewhere else.
Weekender56
November 26th, 2016, 05:38 AM
Takes me a fair bit longer in the shower
sdavid54321
November 26th, 2016, 06:00 AM
i do it in the shower sometimes. i get the orgasm but no cum yet :(
kev1998
November 26th, 2016, 06:12 AM
It takes me forever to cum in the shower. I'm not sure why though.
NoahNoah
November 26th, 2016, 08:53 AM
I have done it in the shower on a couple of times. It takes a really long time for me to cum in the shower, i need like an hour to do it
loki2000
November 26th, 2016, 09:35 AM
It may be because the water is spraying on you in the shower..Or the fear of some one walking in on you ,,Might be distracting you .. I can beat off in the shower no problem ... And can masturbate and squirt any were private .. standing ..kneeling..sitting ...laying down.. In bed at night is the most comfortable
Zachary G
November 26th, 2016, 11:11 AM
My first time was when I was in the shower and I have since been able to continue to do it in, the shower, standing up, or laying down, but never in a seated position. Idk why it just seems too difficult for me to do.
petear
November 26th, 2016, 03:49 PM
I had my first shoot in the shower. intense orgasm it was. :)
Jameson9
November 27th, 2016, 04:18 PM
That's where I usually do it. Idk y tho
jake1214
November 28th, 2016, 10:00 PM
I've done it in the shower before, but it takes some getting used to while you're in a position that's new. I usually do it sitting down, and have a harder time standing and laying down.
Jthompson
November 29th, 2016, 02:56 PM
Lol. I had my first organs in. Ed. I hate jerking off in the shower
Impressionist1910
November 29th, 2016, 08:09 PM
That's where I usually do it. Idk y tho
Same.
Either there or in my room and I prefer the shower ;)
Not sure why as well.
But I do prefer it.
rynoblue
November 29th, 2016, 08:38 PM
i can do it in the shower
alohakanaka808
November 29th, 2016, 10:04 PM
It takes a lot longer to cum in the shower but I've done it a few times. It's a super easy clean up
Jameson9
December 2nd, 2016, 04:27 PM
Same.
Either there or in my room and I prefer the shower ;)
Not sure why as well.
But I do prefer it.
I prefer it as well. And it's easy clean up... Just step under the faucet and rinse off 😂
Impressionist1910
December 2nd, 2016, 06:08 PM
I prefer it as well. And it's easy clean up... Just step under the faucet and rinse off
You better believe it!
9 times out of 10 I'll do it in the shower.
I guess that's it really.
Hot water and easy clean up. Lol.
ThekidErik
December 3rd, 2016, 04:08 AM
I can do it but it takes really long in the shower so I only do it when I have no other option
The captain
December 3rd, 2016, 11:06 AM
don't like shower too..sometimes I did because have no place ( vacations and hotel lol)
nekid
December 3rd, 2016, 12:37 PM
it takes me longer in the shower. My parents probably know what I'm doing in there :D
Pyromaniac27
December 3rd, 2016, 01:37 PM
I do it in the bathroom, but not in the shower. But keep a fan on so Noone can notice
Ireland1
December 3rd, 2016, 05:10 PM
I find it takes a lot longer to cum in the shower and it's more difficult to cum standing up.:lol::lol:
datboijoey
December 5th, 2016, 04:58 PM
I read about how guys experience their first orgasm in the shower whereas I received mine while masturbating in bed. For some reason no matter how hard I try, I cannot orgasm in a shower while sitting, standing, or even laying down. I can get close but never over the edge to where I cum. Anyone else experience this or know why? I even tried watching porn and laying down
Takes me longer in the shower too. Is that because our blood is flowing differnt than laying down?
Space
December 5th, 2016, 06:43 PM
At first I could only do it in bed. I tried one time in the shower laid down and watched some videos. It just took a lot longer.
BobJefferson
December 5th, 2016, 08:00 PM
I have ejaculated in the shower before. I don't remember it taking any longer than usual.
zaccary
December 5th, 2016, 09:31 PM
for me its easier to cum laying down, but its more intense while standing
Hermes
December 6th, 2016, 06:09 AM
At first I could only do it in bed. I tried one time in the shower laid down and watched some videos. It just took a lot longer.
How do you watch videos in the shower?
Bobby.O
December 6th, 2016, 06:58 AM
I read about how guys experience their first orgasm in the shower whereas I received mine while masturbating in bed. For some reason no matter how hard I try, I cannot orgasm in a shower while sitting, standing, or even laying down. I can get close but never over the edge to where I cum. Anyone else experience this or know why? I even tried watching porn and laying down
The water is really distracting the last time i cummed in the shower i fell. My legs went weak and gave out on me..
Space Delta
December 6th, 2016, 12:38 PM
My first real wank was on the toilet. I was 14 but still thought that I was going to pee.
Can't masturbate in the shower, though. Takes me around 15 minutes just to get hard. Around 30 minutes to build up an orgasm.
teeem
December 13th, 2016, 10:48 PM
Yeah I rarely ever do it in the shower cuz it takes so long
Space
December 14th, 2016, 02:33 AM
How do you watch videos in the shower?
Sorry for late response lol I just point the shower head away from me and I lay down. I use my phone closer to my face and that works :p Also notable I have like a shower/bath shower. So it's like perfect even sometimes when I'm home alone and can just do it in my bed I prefer shower but I think that's because 0 cleanup
devnull
December 14th, 2016, 12:59 PM
When I was younger I liked to do it while I was taking a bath or a shower. I once even managed to do it handsfree, only by pointing the shower at the end of my dick :D But a bit later I noticed that it sort of takes too much energy, I felt myself like a squeezed lemon. After all, there is too much other stuff to do while you're taking a shower, I mean shaving all the necessary places, brushing your teeth, washing your hair, etc. I just don't have time to satisfy my sexual needs in the bathroom ;)
NewLeafsFan
December 14th, 2016, 11:11 PM
I don't like to masturbate while standing so I rarely do it in the shower
Rtio329
December 15th, 2016, 04:13 AM
I prefer outside :) Lol
Serioj8279
December 15th, 2016, 10:34 AM
I jerk off in the shower sometimes. I prefer to be laying down
KBar33
December 17th, 2016, 02:15 AM
I think it has to do with the fact that you cannot use lube in the shower, and your precum, which is a natural lubricant, is washed away when you are standing in the shower. The water is a helluva lot hotter and harsher to your penis than whatever lube you use, if you do use lube that is. So the penis isn't getting that warm/sticky-ish natural feeling that you can get when using lube in your hand, however the orgasm is really intense for a lot of people since you are really having to work your dick. Of course, I ain't no nurse or doctor so take what I say with a grain of salt I guess.
Canadian Dream
December 20th, 2016, 06:37 PM
I've noticed the same thing, although it's usually harder for me to masturbate in the shower I can still cum after a while. For some reason it still feels easier and better to do it in bed.
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