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MTB1997
February 21st, 2014, 04:48 PM
In you opinion, what is the "right age" to loose your virginity?

ImAurora
February 21st, 2014, 04:52 PM
18 should be the minimum. Maybe 16, but I'm gonna go with 18.

AlexOnToast
February 21st, 2014, 04:55 PM
I dont think there is a "right age"
But I think 17 is the age where a lot of people seem "ready"

Shado99
February 21st, 2014, 04:56 PM
i said 17

SweetFang
February 21st, 2014, 05:02 PM
Every person is different. Some are ready sooner than others. I hope I wait till marriage but I seriously doubt that will happen.

Sminkelaks
February 21st, 2014, 07:44 PM
I don't think there's a right or wrong answer to this. You're ready when you're ready. I'm going to wait until I'm 16, though, but for all I know I won't meet "Mr. Right" until I'm 30. :P

Hollywood
February 21st, 2014, 07:59 PM
Well, the right age for me is "whenever the hell it happens." I really don't think there's a right age for anyone, except for religious reasons of course.

Hundred Spirited God
February 21st, 2014, 07:59 PM
i think you should when you get married

Croconaw
February 21st, 2014, 08:15 PM
After you get married

alecbramham
February 21st, 2014, 08:21 PM
Myself, being a Christian, I will wait until marriage. But if people don't believe in that, they should wait until they find the person that feels right for them. Don't go losing your virginity at some time or to someone that you could regret later.

grossgod11
February 21st, 2014, 08:24 PM
18 is the legal way and is a good age I guess, but 16 seems good to, I'm a virgin by choice I'm 16

Karkat
February 21st, 2014, 08:25 PM
I think it should be when you are financially stable to some extent; you have a knowledge of birth control, STDs, and what to do if you or your partner gets pregnant; ideally you should be above the age of consent and so should your partner to avoid legal difficulties; you should feel confident in your ability to handle whatever consequences may arise; and most importantly of all, you should feel safe with your partner, and comfortable with it. You should never rush yourself.

There's no right age, really, though ideally you'd wait until you're mostly developed mentally and physically, just a right mentality.

18 is the legal way and is a good age I guess, but 16 seems good to, I'm a virgin by choice I'm 16

Actually, age of consent varies from country to country and state to state. For instance, where I'm at, anyone 16 or 17 may have sex with anyone 16-22. Anything below that is illegal no matter what, anything above 23 has to wait until you're 18. Some states may also have a general age of consent, and then have 'exception' laws. 18 is generally the benchmark, but in some places in the US it's 19, and in some areas of the world it's 20/21. It's good to know the consent laws for your area.

15-17 seems to be when a lot of people lose it. Or they'll lose it in their first couple years of college if they wait until adulthood. I personally know girls who got pregnant in middle school, and had abortions. It's not the greatest choice to have sex that young, in my opinion. I personally lost it at 16 (sort of, I was raped at 13, so this was my first consensual time.) , to my current boyfriend. I was ready, I had a job, I knew what I was doing, and it turned out great.

Dwemer
February 21st, 2014, 08:38 PM
Would say 16 but it all so depends on the person. Wouldnt realy go below 16.

NickCollins
February 21st, 2014, 08:44 PM
i put 17 but anywhere between 15 and up depending on how emotionally mature the person is

AlanPeanuts
February 22nd, 2014, 06:13 AM
Most people are ready ENOUGH between 16-18+ I'd say. That's definitely the time I'll be completely ready.

Boar
February 22nd, 2014, 09:38 AM
I believe that that there is no specific age limit for having sex. I think anything under 15 is a little young, but whenever you feel the time is right will be the right time. That's my philosophy.

Shadow08200
February 22nd, 2014, 10:34 AM
I'd have to say 18 or sometime when you're out of high school.

everlong
February 22nd, 2014, 12:31 PM
It's not age more than it is when you're ready. Either way, I said 18. Either 16 or 18 I guess.

ninja789
February 22nd, 2014, 01:10 PM
it is different for lots of people
I feel for me I should have waited until around 18 but people mature at different rates

Ben101
February 22nd, 2014, 02:29 PM
There isnt a 'right' or 'average' age, its different for everyone.

crazyBoyjJ
February 22nd, 2014, 02:33 PM
I think it should be when ur married. Cause it will feel better when u actually do it

Luminous
February 22nd, 2014, 03:55 PM
I didn't put in any age. I don't think that there is any right time. It really depends on the couple. Not every 16 year old (for example) is the same maturity.

Zachary G
February 22nd, 2014, 05:01 PM
i say 16 because at that age you share a sense of responsibility, but waiting until one is married would be ideal.

workingatperfect
February 22nd, 2014, 05:05 PM
It varies, but for me personally I think I was ready at 16. I thought I was ready at 15, but looking back I think I was wrong lol. A year made a big difference. Also I think anything younger than 15, no way are you ready, no matter how ready you think you are.

Snowfall
February 23rd, 2014, 07:14 AM
15 personally is the most well rounded age. You're sort of developed both physically and mentally by this time on average, and if both parties are willing I don't see a problem. So long as you're prepared MENTALLY it's good.

Allison415
March 2nd, 2014, 02:52 AM
13 is plenty late enough to have sex. 16 is better, but if you wait until marriage, there is something wrong with you. I had sex at 17, and I felt like a loser since I was 13, until I had sex.

Plasma
March 2nd, 2014, 02:55 AM
Well I'm 18 and I'm not quite there yet. I think it just all deoends on when you meet that right person. So, there should be an answer similar to that on the poll

Ricky.h
March 2nd, 2014, 03:02 AM
I think waiting for marriage is ideal BUT 16 is the age I think most should lose it because it's legal (I think lol) and you want to have experience and practice so when you get in a marriage you'll know what to do in a sense and that's especially for dudes because it takes some practice to get the dick game right so starting at the age 16 is a good age for guys (of course using precautions)
For girls at 16 it's good because they're becoming a woman and getting to know their body and what they like (I guess that's what I'm thinking lol) so I just think 16 is a good age

ksdnfkfr
March 2nd, 2014, 03:32 AM
Originally I my friend and I were thinking 16.
But we are wanting to go all the way more and more.
We have done everything else except tons of time, so it's seeming kind of silly to hold off on that one thing. We are totally prepared for it mentally and emotionally. Have everything we need. Have read all about what and what not to do.

Danagal
March 2nd, 2014, 04:24 AM
Wouldn't that be someones own choice to make

Dracarys
March 2nd, 2014, 05:50 AM
That boat set sail a long time ago lol.
But I'd say around 16-18

Kyle14
March 2nd, 2014, 07:00 AM
I dont think there is a right age. Depends on the person and there values

backjruton
March 2nd, 2014, 03:34 PM
I dont think there is a "right age"
But I think 17 is the age where a lot of people seem "ready"

I'm ready and the only other person in my college who is is a girl and repulsive (I would never do anything sexual with her because in all honesty I don't know where she's been, but even though she says she's a virgin and I completely deserve that she told me she once had piles and I'm still creeped out by that) :whoops::(

I never want to go anywhere near there with a female. And I never want to get married because of commitment problems, so if I said "Not until marriage" I would never lose it, not that I really care anyway.

In other words, I Have no idea what I think about this question XD