Getting over my crush?

[ItsJustSomeone]

So, the title here is pretty obvious, I'm guessing? :lol: Anyways, this is kind of embarrassing, but I need a bit of a hand here. I've had a crush on this guy since September. I've known him for a few years now, but we were only ever acquaintances until I started to see him differently. He was placed in one of my classes, and I got to know him better- before you know it, I was head over heels for him. I thought there was hope, but then things took a funny turn.

I confessed to him, and he only told me he didn't know what to say before we never spoke of the subject again. I thought there could still be hope for us in the future, even as close friends, but our relationship feels rather tight and distant. I feel he doesn't care much about me as a friend at all. He gets along way better with a lot of other people. We just don't connect. It breaks my heart, but I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to keep suffering over how indifferent he is.

I think it's best to just move on, but it's really hard to do. My feelings are slowly fading, but the wound's still raw.. He's still in my class, and we talk a bit, he's on my social media, and so I constantly have to see him. Not that I don't want to, but I feel the warmth and hope that shoots up inside my stomach when I see him isn't exactly helping me here.

I just need advice on how to stop caring about what he thinks of me and the affection I have for him and move on, or whatever else I can do about this... :(

[weirdaliencooties]

i really cannot help u there my friend. Im still getting over some1.
u should hang w friends and listen to happy songs and try not to get him in ur thoughts. Im sorry.

[ska8er]

Hes just not interested in u in the way ur
interested in him so u just have to set it
in ur mind that its the way it is but since
u do still talk and c each other in class
continue to b his friend but cool it on
trying to get him to like u in another
way. Maybe in time he will get tg know
u better in a different way. I would now
look for someone else to try to ease the
pain that u r going through. There r guys
out there that r looking for someone too.

[jamie_n5]

Why don't you take the initiative and ask him to go out with you. You will at least know for sure if he rejects your offer. Then you can move on. If he accepts then go somewhere where you can talk and really get to know each other.

[ItsJustSomeone]

Why don't you take the initiative and ask him to go out with you. You will at least know for sure if he rejects your offer. Then you can move on. If he accepts then go somewhere where you can talk and really get to know each other.

The truth is that if it actually happened, I don't think it would be a great idea because it seems he's not ready for any sort of dating. I don't really want to make that move feeling this insecure about it, or possibly hurting him in the end because of it.

[darla]

Time

[Stronk Serb]

Don't think about him. I broke 4 months ago with my ex and became an alcoholic. Now I am sobering up, but just plain forget him. The path of the bottle is far more dangerous and just the worst thing you can do.

[IStayOnVT]

The truth is that if it actually happened, I don't think it would be a great idea because it seems he's not ready for any sort of dating. I don't really want to make that move feeling this insecure about it, or possibly hurting him in the end because of it.
you must think about all idea, then select the best. But first think good.

[Atlantis]

you must think about all idea, then select the best. But first think good.

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