I've never met this girl but she's coming on strong

[Drewmain9]

You may have seen my last post but if not I'll recap. I met this girl through a friend who goes to a different school and we've been snapping for a couple weeks now. I've never met her in person and we havent even talked on the phone or anything I only know what she looks like from her snaps. Things aren't really awkward between us anymore (at least until now) and things were going good. Anyways this parts gonna be pretty weird. She's been coming on really strong and asked if I wanted to meet up and have sex. I really like her but we've never really met so naturally this conversation got really awkward really fast. I told her I wanted to at least meet her first (we've had some really deep conversations and it's almost as if we've known eachother for years or else i would say no completely.) Anyways the whole conversations gotten awkward and I've tried joking around a bit but it's a big elephant in the room. I don't mean to blame her but she is kind of responsible for this but I want to fix it. It's pretty obvious that we need to talk about this over the phone or something so I'm thinking I've gotta just be straight forward about it and ask to call her tonight or something. Also I want to know how you guys think I should go about meeting her since we've had some deep conversations but I know when we see each other in person it's gonna be kind of weird because we've never met but we know eachother well. So i'm thinking I would rather meet her at like a party or something as opposed to just the two of us. Any advice you have on anything I've said would be really appreciated thanks!

[ska8er]

If u haven't met in person her asking to
hook for sex doesn't seem right to me.
If she really likes u and u seem to like
her-u have to get some kind of mutual
agreement together before the two of
u just meet. I would tell her that u have
to get to know her better before u think
of sex and if u do plan to meet go to a
place where there r other people around.
U don't seem to b an impulsive guy but
would u want a girl that snaps other guys
for sex before she meets them? Find a girl
at school one that u can scope out to know
something bout her before u jump into a fire.

[Anniebanannie]

Now you know a bit of what it feels like to be a girl and be pressured by a guy. It does sound like something is questionable here. I don't think you have to meet in person to clear this up. But please follow your instincts and be straight with her. You don't know her or her motivations.

[Muddy Sneakers]

sounds like trouble. why don't you talk to you over the phone a few times and then if that goes OK (different than snapping) then you can meet at a shopping mall where you can do something together, rather than going to your place or hers.

[jamie_n5]

If you want to meet face to face why don't you ask to meet her at some teen hang out or other public place. Then you could sit down and talk and further your relationship by talking a while. I don't think it's a good idea to jump into sex right away. You could kiss or make out and have some fun that way for a while then after some time has passed, like a few weeks, then maybe you could give sex a try. Make sure you use protection regardless if she says she is on the pill or any other form of birth control.