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ninja1010
November 7th, 2016, 08:57 PM
Alright, so I've been dating girl, H, for about a month now. We get along well, we're attracted to each other, but we've had a couple issues with her being a little dishonest and just disregarding my feelings when she gets angry or upset.

Other girl, K, m one of closest friends for a couple years was very excited for me at the start. However, she has told me that H should treat me better and I've kind of shrugged it off. It's my first relationship ever. I've valued K's opinion on my relationship and gone to get for advice a few times.

Now, here's the issue and someone probably already guessed it. I've started to develop feelings for K, even though she is into another guy already. I've had issues with H getting jealous of K who was previously just a friend. Me and K have always gotten along perfectly and we just kind of click. We have a lot in common and are just comfortable with each other.

K was grounded and has no access to a phone right now (i talk to her a lot at school) but I'm really afraid and upset, because her parents want to transfer her because of guys being sexual and her. (They went through her phone and learned about guys harassing her)

I feel guilty and H has already caught on to me acting a little strange. I don't know what to do. I already might lose K, but I think I've had pent up feelings for her for a couple years now. I just don't want her to be the one that got away. But, i don't want to hurt H or lose them both.

Please. I'm just a confused young boy.

Yes, I'm in high school.

ska8er
November 7th, 2016, 11:17 PM
H is ur girlfriend-u r dating her-K is into
another guy-she is just ur friend right now.
Don't come between them and don't get
mixed up with her parents since they r
concerned with the guys she is talking to.
Stay with H until the two of u iron things
out with the dishonesty and whatever-if u
cannot tolerate her anymore look for some
one who is going to treat u better. Maybe
then K will b available.

jamie_n5
November 11th, 2016, 07:36 PM
I think as long as the other girl has a BF you need to ride things out with your present GF and see how that goes. It wouldn't be right to get in between your friend and her BF either.

PlasmaHam
November 12th, 2016, 08:32 PM
At the moment, I wouldn't make any moves towards your friend K. Regardless or not she shares your feelings, she might see it as rude for you to interfere in her relationship.

As for your current relationship, if you are still happy with it then I see no reason to abolish it. Who knows? Maybe you will actually develop stronger feelings for girl H than girl K if you stay with her awhile. Anyways, I would let things work out between K and her boyfriend and you and your girlfriend before making any moves towards girl K.