Do I go on a date with a girl and then ask her to be my gf or vice versa?

[blass2]

Also, if it's date -> ask, how do I go up to a girl I hardly talk to and hardly know and start a conversation without it being awkward? Or do I just ask her on a date? I'm 14 and very new to this. Also, date ideas would be nice, since I have no transportation. Do I just get my parents to take me?

[Babs]

Generally people go on a few dates and then decide if they want to be official. Although these days it's not typically a very formal process for young people.

[Uranus]

Don't ask her to be your gf immediately.
If you hardly talk with her and haven't much at all, you should wait awhile because you barely know her at all. I'm not saying a few months or anything like that but definitely not within a week. Don't rush it. Have some time together on dates and get to know each other after awhile and communicate. Get her # too especially after the first date or maybe even before, but get it after you start talking and have conversations.

[ska8er]

Start small talk with a girl-ask her bout what
she likes in music or movies or something to
do with schoolwork just to c what each of u
have in common and smile when u talk with
her. If this leads to a date don't ask her right
away to b steadies-u have to get to know each
other better-don't rush it. As for going out on a
date find a place where u can hang in ur town or
area that u can get to without asking ur parents
to drive u unless u r comfortable with the arrange-
ment but I don't think its cool to get ur parents in
any of ur dates unless it is necessary.