Why do alway girls from the internet fall in love with me?

[Lukas1999]

Hello. First of all I want to introduce myself. I am a 16-year-old boy from Germany and I will turn 17 in a few weeks.

I had my first relationship when I was 11 year old. After two year we broke up. And now I am looking for a relationship.

I try to do talk to girls in real life, but It doesn't work so good. If school is ending in the afternoon I sit in front of my computer and I am surfing the internet. I have an account at many forums like virtualteen.org . Some girls write me visitor messages. It is quite normal i think.

But recently there was a girl who had really a crush on me. She said that she liked my entries and fell in love with me. Can this happen by reading my entries.

I don't like to have an online-relationship.

What can I do?

[Johnny_Craig_]

Thread, find girls from your school on the internet and ask them out.

[Just JT]

I think it can happen. You can really get to know people very differently/better on line in many ways as you only have what they say. And that comes from their heart. You don't see how they speak, walk talk or act or anything. It's a different perspective

So I wouldn't push it away if the feelings are mutual anyways. But also be careful

But you also make it sound like the girl might be a member here. If that's true you might wana think about this thread, she might see it. And think about how she would feel

[Zachary G]

I dont think she is in love with you as much as she is in love with the idea of you because of your postings. If you want to find out for sure then you have to deal with her one on one and converse there, so she can see the real you.

[Lukas1999]

She is not from her but from an another forum.