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Drewmain9
November 4th, 2016, 05:46 PM
I've never been in a relationship before and she's definitely out of my league. I'm just trying to not make things awkward but she's being really flirty and I don't know how to respond. We've never met, we just have a friend in common who's also helping me out here and there. I want to meet her but I don't know how long I should wait or what would be the ideal situation (ex. go to a party or hang out with other friends, or something more personal like to a movie or something). I don't know how often I should text her either, we have a streak on snap (4 days but she wants to keep it) but I suck at starting conversations and that's pretty much how I'm doing it. Any advice is appreciated thanks.
Babs
November 4th, 2016, 06:27 PM
Absolutely number one best thing is to just relax and be yourself. I know that sounds cliche but if you just say what's on your mind it makes things so much less awkward. Don't think too hard about what you're going to say. Just be real.
Drewmain9
November 4th, 2016, 06:48 PM
Absolutely number one best thing is to just relax and be yourself. I know that sounds cliche but if you just say what's on your mind it makes things so much less awkward. Don't think too hard about what you're going to say. Just be real.
Thanks man that helps, my real goal rn is like a deep conversation right now because I wanna know more about her. I was going to do it tonight but I just get so nervous because I've got nothing past "Hey, whats up?" she always replies and she'll probably carry the conversation but I still can't bring myself to do it. It's been like 2-3 days since we actually had a conversation besides "streaks" "streaks". I feel like I'm coming off like I'm not interested but I'm really just being conservative because I don't wanna screw things up. THe only way I've started a conversation so far is sending her something that I send to alot of people (and it's odvious that I have) and taken it from there. Any ideas how I can start a deep conversation?
DefinitelyNotY
November 4th, 2016, 08:40 PM
She probably thinks the same "He likes me?" "I'm pushy to him?" and doesn't have any good idea to do a interesting talk.
It's going to be kind of stressful in the few minutes, but just try to ask her things about music, hobbies, what she dreams, things like that break the ice really good.
jamie_n5
November 4th, 2016, 10:45 PM
Well I think it's time you two talked in person. Unless of course this has been an on line relationship only. If not I would try to arrange a meet up and go from there man.
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