Camping

[shark_attack]

Okay, I'm going camping this weekend with some people and I have to share a room with a guy who's a bit younger than I am, there will only be two of us in the room so I, just wondering what should I do about like sleeping naked or getting changed or masturbation?? I think he's 13 and I'm 16... Any help?

[askingalex12]

Definitely don't sleep naked. Covers could come off and if he's awake at that time he could freak and tell the adults. That's just me, but about the changing part ask if it's ok with him to change. Don't go all out if you change your underwear. Just the basics. Now, masturbating...I would say hold off on it just to be safe then again, you might hear him doing the same haha. Its a 50/50 situation man

[Swagging god]

My advice would be either confine your masturbation and nudity to your bed under the covers. However, you both have a penis I'm sure he knows that and it won't be a big deal. Depending on how well you know him, you could talk to him as your are changing like after a shower or something and see how he feels. Just chill and communicate that you want everyone to be comfortable. Good luck!

[Catholic Guy]

If you're in sleeping bags feel free to sleep naked, if you are in tents remember that could be quite cold, I personally, if it was only two of us, would just be quite open about getting changed and being naked, don't make a big deal about it though and don't spend loads of time getting changed, he may ask you questions after that and only be as open as you are comfortable with, how long are you going camping for? Just the weekend? Then you can probably go without masturbating, have a good time! Plus he's thirteen so he probably knows everything anyway

[ksdnfkfr]

No need at all to sleep naked.
Just turn your back while getting dressed.
And masturbate the same places you pee.

[NeuroTiger]

Sleep naked might not be ideal and for getting dressed, try not to do it so openly (if he sees you naked, that's fine...if not, that's fine)
And try to resist your sexual temptation or masturbate in the shower.

[chrisjenkins]

Don't sleep naked and jerk it in the bathroom.

[Boar]

Okay, I'm going camping this weekend with some people and I have to share a room with a guy who's a bit younger than I am, there will only be two of us in the room so I, just wondering what should I do about like sleeping naked or getting changed or masturbation?? I think he's 13 and I'm 16... Any help?

To me it sounds like a bad idea altogether. If you were really thinking about and wanting to do it then I think the closest thing is to ask. If he has no clue what you are talking about then leave it at that.

[nklarke]

What I think is that if you are a bit worried, he's 100 times worried. You are 3 years older so it's kinda you put the rules. He will wait to see what you do.

[backjruton]

I jacked off in a tent on a school trip when I was 11 but they were all the same age as me :L the lights were turned off and they were most likely sleeping but I wasn't ;)

as for this situation, I've never made any noises while doing it just the slightly heavier breathing so I'm not really sure. If you're quiet about it, then do it in the tent when you're both supposed to be sleeping and the lights are turned off. And I also know sleeping naked will put you in an awkward position if he's awake before you and trying to wake you up, so sleep in your underwear. My mum almost caught me yesterday but luckily I was sleeping with my boxers lower down my legs and not with them off, so I was just able to pull them up :L

[tomaso2]

We are born nude and i dont see the problem being nude around other boys. We are all the same and it should be natural to be nude around other boys.
I always sleep nude and dont care about who see me but thats me.

[Boar]

We are born nude and i dont see the problem being nude around other boys. We are all the same and it should be natural to be nude around other boys.
I always sleep nude and dont care about who see me but thats me.

Wow. You just defined how every guy SHOULD feel about being nude around one another.

[Ben101]

I disagree with most other posters, if you want to sleep naked, sleep naked, if you want to jerk there, jerk there. The chances are they will know what you are doing and join in anyway

[JamesSuperBoy]

Okay, I'm going camping this weekend with some people and I have to share a room with a guy who's a bit younger than I am, there will only be two of us in the room so I, just wondering what should I do about like sleeping naked or getting changed or masturbation?? I think he's 13 and I'm 16... Any help?


might be a bit cold for anything!!

[Anon_]

I think the best thing to do might be to ask him if h's comfortable with you sleeping naked/changing around him.

As for masturbating, depending on how well you know him, I think you should probably give that a miss while with him.

[frisbee25]

Just tell him this is what i do and then have him tell you what he does then you guys could determine whether its good or bad

[Luke91]

Unless he brings up masterbation, I don't think I would go there at least out in the open. However, he has a penis and I bet he knows you have one too. I would start out stripping down to your underwear and see what he does. If he does the same, then you can say that you sleep naked and then slide you underwear off and get in bed. My guess he will do the same. Like others have said he will follow your lead. If you normally sleep naked, he is a boy and it is OK in this situation too.

[MrIan]

My advice would be either confine your masturbation and nudity to your bed under the covers. However, you both have a penis I'm sure he knows that and it won't be a big deal. Depending on how well you know him, you could talk to him as your are changing like after a shower or something and see how he feels. Just chill and communicate that you want everyone to be comfortable. Good luck!

yep he's right.

[NickCollins]

If your comfortable sleeping naked tell the guy so he knows
as for getting changed just turn around if you don't want him seeing you junk
and masturbate where ever is comfortable the other guy is problay gonna jerk of aswell

[Country Cowboy]

I think the best thing to do is discuss this before hand and lay down some ground rules with him. If he's 13 then he most likely does this stuff too.

[gwonz987]

don't sleep naked dude with people you don't know to well! don't masterbate with other people in the room who might not be ok with it.

[openminded-sama]

I think you should open up to him and see his reaction

[radsniper]

ask him and see what he says also report back

[AlanPeanuts]

Don't sleep naked, don't masturbate, and wait to change your undies until either you go to the camp showers/bathrooms, and such. Typically when someone sleeps over with me I just sleep in my everyday clothes because I normally sleep nude.

[LunarScorpio]

Just get changed under a towel on in the bathroom.

I think the age is a bit large to be too open etc

[riverboy]

If you're in sleeping bags feel free to sleep naked, if you are in tents remember that could be quite cold, I personally, if it was only two of us, would just be quite open about getting changed and being naked, don't make a big deal about it though and don't spend loads of time getting changed, he may ask you questions after that and only be as open as you are comfortable with, how long are you going camping for? Just the weekend? Then you can probably go without masturbating, have a good time! Plus he's thirteen so he probably knows everything anyway

I agree. Ask him how he feels about changing in the open and being nude.

[daniel74]

Be casual but upfront about it. You're older than him so he'll probably just go along with whatever.

[mww113]

I wouldn't worry about how you sleep or changing. But as for masturbation, you may make him uncomfortable.

[Zachary G]

Definitely don't sleep naked. Covers could come off and if he's awake at that time he could freak and tell the adults. That's just me, but about the changing part ask if it's ok with him to change. Don't go all out if you change your underwear. Just the basics. Now, masturbating...I would say hold off on it just to be safe then again, you might hear him doing the same haha. Its a 50/50 situation man

i couldnt have said this any better myself, well spoken advice.

[theDoc]

Ummmm, first of all don't sleep naked that's weird... Second change ping doesn't matter just do it. Third don't jerk off unless he does...

[Underwearlover]

Why dont you see what he does see if he sleeps naked then if he does you can, if not ask him if he minds you sleeping naked or with just your underwear on. If you are sleeping in a hotel you could get changed in the bathroom if your in a tent ask if you minds you changing just turn away whilst your changing. As for masturbating do you really need too?

Last year i went on a school trip to france we stayed in a youth hostel and i was sharing a room with 2 other boys but i knew them quite well a d they were both a couple of months younger than me, i just waited to see what they would do. for the first night i slept with pyjamas and so did the second oldest but the youngest just had some budgie smugglers on (which he felt embarrassed about, but we said it was fine everyone has had them at one point) and we took it in turns to get changed in the bathroom but the second might me and the second oldest both wore underwear as well and we felt confident getting changed in front of each other. I didnt masturbate because i didnt feel the need to but me and the youngest one heard the other one doing it in the bathroom one night. he even put on a mankini that he had been given as a joke present which was quite funny. Thats how comfortable we felt around each other

[awesomeness14]

Don't sleep naked and masturbate in the bathr

[shark_attack]

Thanks guys, it went really well I think aha... I got there and talked to him and he said that he thought the same thing and we decided as there was of two of us in our room and the door is always locked that we can just live as we would in the house, so when ever we were in the room we just lounged about naked aha and slept naked and such aha it was just really easy going aha he's a really nice kid aswell aha and I found out that before the camp he was really insecure but because I was there and told him that his body was normal he felt a lot better leaving aha so everything went well.... And as for masturbation, it did happen and in the room, and he did join in aha however he was in his own bunk and I was in mine so it was okay :)

[redbrand12]

don't sleep naked and jerk it in the bathroom.

+10000

[redbrand12]

Thanks guys, it went really well I think aha... I got there and talked to him and he said that he thought the same thing and we decided as there was of two of us in our room and the door is always locked that we can just live as we would in the house, so when ever we were in the room we just lounged about naked aha and slept naked and such aha it was just really easy going aha he's a really nice kid aswell aha and I found out that before the camp he was really insecure but because I was there and told him that his body was normal he felt a lot better leaving aha so everything went well.... And as for masturbation, it did happen and in the room, and he did join in aha however he was in his own bunk and I was in mine so it was okay :)

:what: He joined in on the masturbation :confused:

[Jake Rosenbloom]

Why not sleep naked? you both have penises so he probably wont mind. and who knows? maybe he sleeps naked too. lol

[Luke91]

Thanks guys, it went really well I think aha... I got there and talked to him and he said that he thought the same thing and we decided as there was of two of us in our room and the door is always locked that we can just live as we would in the house, so when ever we were in the room we just lounged about naked aha and slept naked and such aha it was just really easy going aha he's a really nice kid aswell aha and I found out that before the camp he was really insecure but because I was there and told him that his body was normal he felt a lot better leaving aha so everything went well.... And as for masturbation, it did happen and in the room, and he did join in aha however he was in his own bunk and I was in mine so it was okay :)

Way to go. Sounds like you had a fun weekend. You would have never known he was worried about the same thing if you had not had the guts to approach the subject. You made a friend for life.

[Wyatt 13]

Whoa dude Y u need to jerk in front of him? totally wrong man.

[thatboykevin]

just bring it up in a congo and see what he says, if you don't just hold off

[spartanrob]

I'm glad all went well, congrats on just being chill about it. honestly I don't get why so many guys are so freaked out about being naked around other guys!

[shadynorm333]

I wouldn't sleep naked, but because you're older I doubt he will have any problem. Because you're older, if you masturbate he might too. Just do whatever you need to do