My ex... getting back together?

[baseball211]

Just to give some background info we were in a relationship for exactly 3 months and have been apart for just over 2 months. Our relationship was very serious. Burberry we broke up due to not feeling loved enough at times by the other, but this I still very fixable. So anyways, after a day or two arguing over several things (they all got resolved) my ex asked me what I really wanted. I told her the reasons why I thought we should give it another shot. Those included lack of communication leading to the end and how we never said what we thought about our relationship which ultimately brought us down. But now we're able to communicate easily (not back together yet). At first she said she didn't think another chance was necessary, and she told me sorry for that. I explained further and she said "I don't think this is a good idea right now" since she said going through things and personal changes in her life. I told her that we should be friends during that time and then see where that takes us relationship wise. She agreed. Thoughts?

[ska8er]

Seems like she doesn't know what she wants.
Until she makes up her mind-just b friends like
u suggested and she agreed and c where the
relationship goes but if she still cant come to
some agreement u should look for someone
else who will deserve u better.

[Drewboyy]

It's almost never a good idea to get back together with an ex bro

[ClaraWho]

Whilst the above reply was short and pithy, it does say most of what needs to be said. The relationship ended for a reason, 99.9% of the time that reason is that it was never meant to be. As for 'being very serious', from the outside it doesn't look that way, certainly as if you both WERE that close it wouldn't have ended. You'd have made it work before it came to that.

Psychologists say the only way to get over a relationship properly is to cut all contact, otherwise the whole 'but what if...' doesn't go away - you see that individual constantly and are torn by the past.

Just something to consider,

~ Clara

[jamie_n5]

Usually you break up because you are not suited for each other. The ultimate decision is between you two. We on the sidelines can't make that decision for you.