View Full Version : How to not mess things up?
JJcon
November 1st, 2016, 05:04 PM
So, I've met a wondeful girl within the school year has begun. I was really interested in her, didn't have enough confidence to ask her about her feelings about me, then suddenly she did, so (i guess) we've became a couple, don't know a lot about each other. Thing's doing well anyway, but I'm a bit worried. I have no idea if she is more romantic or kinda shy-like person, what I mean is, I'm in total love now, don't wanna miss my chance of a great relationship, and I don't know how many emotions should I keep for my own self, not to scare her, or become werid.
I know i should prabobly keep asking her about things like this, but I just don't know how, social idiot, i guess :p
The point is that I'm very in love and don't know if she is in the same level of "exicment". Need help from you, guys
I'm 13 guy btw (yeah canser, whatever)
Sorry for bad English
StoppingTom
November 1st, 2016, 05:53 PM
Gradually as you become closer you're gonna get a better feel for how she ticks and what is/isn't okay.
However, I want to give you some advice that I hope sticks with you as you grow up more.
You can do everything right for whoever it is you're dating, now or in the future. You can do everything you can to be the best partner you can be, and it can still get "messed up". That's not failure, that's just life. It isn't fair, but it makes you grow, and it makes you better.
Best of luck.
JJcon
November 1st, 2016, 06:34 PM
Gradually as you become closer you're gonna get a better feel for how she ticks and what is/isn't okay.
However, I want to give you some advice that I hope sticks with you as you grow up more.
You can do everything right for whoever it is you're dating, now or in the future. You can do everything you can to be the best partner you can be, and it can still get "messed up". That's not failure, that's just life. It isn't fair, but it makes you grow, and it makes you better.
Best of luck.
Thanks Tom, nice to see someone understarnds ;)
jamie_n5
November 7th, 2016, 08:31 PM
I think you should just keep being with each other and as time goes on you both will get to know each other better and don't be afraid to ask her about herself and encourage her to ask you anything about you. You will soon see how she feels about you and things will move along nicely. Good luck man.
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