The talk with dad

[football matt]

So has anybody here had "the talk" with their dad. I caught mine masturbating and we ended up having "the talk". If your dad talked to you how did he bring it up and was it awkward.

[joshua123]

Yeah it just kind of got brought up one dayand qe talked about it.

[hairy balls]

no I havent

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Not me.

[Dave2u]

Yes, my dad was cool about how he explained things, it was not just one talk. He has talked to my brother and I many times. He is always open to questions and never judgmental.

[Zachary G]

My dad and I had the talk one day when we were on a road trip, he just kinda brought it up outta the blue and it caught me off guard, but he was really cool about it and we talked about a lot.

[Cadanance00]

My mom more than my dad. She's very open about sex and stuff like that. My dad is too but mom takes the lead. I don't know that any of us ever had "the talk" but if something comes up we talk about it.

I never caught my dad masturbating but I think it would be something of a shock.

[jamie_n5]

I guess I am kind of like Kayden. My mom has been the one that ever talked to me about sexual things or puberty. She is a nurse so maybe that's why and I think my dad is kind of shy about those things. He has accepted me being gay but it was not a great start and we just don't talk about it anymore either.

[ska8er]

My Dad mentioned getting off and even tho I
could have refused to hear him out I let him
rip-LOL-anyway he was way nervous and I said
I know so what-he walked away with his head
down. I guess he wanted me to confess but
come on-he knows and I'm guilty.

[pjones]

we still talk. started when i was around 10 i think. he's really cool and we can talk about everything

[Slashman1]

No my parents never try to mention anything like that

[CuriousApple]

My school in primary and secondary both have tried to encourage "the talk" with sex ed homework but all the homework I had for it got binned by myself, my mum and dad never found out, it'd have been too embarrassing LOL

[tom20012016]

Noo my parents are really old fashioned

[SeansLittleBro]

My dad had the official "talk" with my brother and me at the same time he even suspected we knew and were doing it all anyway which we were together and with others, but felt he had to do his dad thing.

[Jordanchill]

I don't think my dad and I have really talked about things like that. The only talk was with my mom about safe sex. I mostly learned things from friends at school.

[Brieftime]

I wish I had a dad to have the talk with :(

[bojack]

My dad never really gave me the talk. My mom kinda did, but it was more about safe sex. i think they figured i'd just learn everything in health class

[Jericho14]

No never

[Kevgpdx]

I actually have a really good relationship with my dad, and he has always been open about talking. I mean, I got the official talk once, but we can also talk casually about stuff like masturbation, body stuff, even sex, and its always been cool. My mom is more uptight about stuff.

[kyd13]

I never have. My family is pretty quiet about that kind of stuff. If he did give me the talk, I feel like it would be super awkward.

[Don Giovanni]

nope, never and i don't want it too. It is awkward.

[Vegas2933]

I managed to dodge the sex talk, thank god! I know it's normal but it would be extremely awkward for me.

[Ragle]

About 10, I often helped Dad with his restoration project Porsche 914/6 R.

On a wall of his oldtimer garage he'd pinned a poster of such a Porsche model. Before that car sat a almost naked young woman.

When Dad noticed that I was looking more likely at the poster than I was interested in the inner beauties of an almost rotten Porsche bodywork, we'd The Talk.


He explained all the sex-ed stuff by using nuts, screws and other car parts as examples.

I'm afraid to say, but since then I've an erotic relationship with cars.

[Space]

I haven't really tried to make that connection with my Dad but my Dad has asked if I have pubes checking if I am going through puberty. Anyways, before that my parents wanted to have the talk but I was like hold up I already know. They gave me a quiz. XD Anyways I feel that my Dad would be open to this stuff but it's nerve racking to get into that area.

[nekid]

My dad talked with me, it was pretty cool. He answered questions I had that I thought I was the only one would think about. He made me realize that a lot of boys think and worry about the same things

[Ricky.h]

So has anybody here had "the talk" with their dad. I caught mine masturbating and we ended up having "the talk". If your dad talked to you how did he bring it up and was it awkward.

I had the talk around 10 or maybe 11 it was kind of the generic version and censored but general info. Around 13/14 my dad gave me the raw version and explained everything. We watched porn videos and he showed me what to expect not to expect. He should me how to put on a condom (using himself) gave me a lot of advice and safety tips etc. I really appreciate it. At that age he told me that by 16 I should have lost my virginity and that I should be sexual active having sex consistently as a man

[ZKS142002]

I never had the talk with him but got it from my uncle and cousins

[bonbon]

No, never. Would be very embarrassing. My dad likely knows that I don't need to be explained hiow things work at my age!

[The general]

I had the talk around 10 or maybe 11 it was kind of the generic version and censored but general info. Around 13/14 my dad gave me the raw version and explained everything. We watched porn videos and he showed me what to expect not to expect. He should me how to put on a condom (using himself) gave me a lot of advice and safety tips etc. I really appreciate it. At that age he told me that by 16 I should have lost my virginity and that I should be sexual active having sex consistently as a man

I wish my dad was that cool of how I could openly talk to him

[Weekender56]

Never really had a talk before. Learned it myself.

[Curious_Guy]

I've had the talk with dad, and it was fine. Only awkward time was when mum was trying to talk to me about jerking off. God that was bad

[sdavid54321]

never had a talk with my dad about that stuff

[alohakanaka808]

I was still wearing tighty whities and he noticed that my dick was getting to big for them when I would have morning wood so he started talking to me

[Muddy Sneakers]

Yeah - actually a few talks. the first time was when we were in a car and we heard something on the radio about sex and he used that as a excuse to start the topic. At first it was awkward for me but since he was cool about it, we've since had a bunch of "open" discussions where he let me ask him stuff.

[dude_g]

I caught my uncle masturbating, so he gave me the talk

[ethan-s]

So what happened was my mom and dad sat myself and my siblings down on the couch and he did the talk (with mom adding bits and pieces). It really was not that awkward 1) because I was playing with a string the whole time and 2) I already knew everything.

[Weekender56]

Never had the talk. Learned about it on my own

[ashdaniel]

My dad never give me the talk about I think he know that I know. He caught me watch porn when I was younger but he say I shouldn't watch it. Also he kinda know what stage I am in during puberty. I sleep in my loose boxer or nude. My dad usually came in my room and tuck in my sheet at night when he wake up for bathroom. I got random boner at night so he saw my boner and kinda feel it how big and thick was it when he tuck in my sheet. I fakesleep when I wake up after he came in my room. So I guess this is how my dad know how I been through puberty and how I developed.

[Andrew02]

Dad gave me the talk, it was pretty awkward lol.

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

I've never had the talk with anyone, just figured everything out myself

[Atlantis]

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