First boyfriend - he wants me to touch him

[JessicaS]

I guess I'm in my first relationship with a boy. We've kissed a lot, and so far I haven't taken any clothes off or let him touch me anywhere under my clothes. But he keeps putting my hand on his crotch so I can feel that he has a boner. A few days ago he pulled his pants down and showed all of it to me. I'd never seen a boy with an erection (and hair) before. He wanted me to touch it and play with it, and I got scared and said NO! Put it away!
Girls, please help me by sharing your first thoughts and feelings when your first saw or touched a boy's stuff down there.:what:

[MaeFae]

I had seen plenty online before so I wasn't really shocked or anything when I saw one for the first time. But everyone handles things differently and at the end of the day, if you're not comfortable with it, then that's where it stops. Never do anything you don't want to and take things at your own pace. It goes the other way too, if you want to do something that he doesn't want to then you respect his decision and he has to respect your decision as well if you don't want to do something. Take things at your own pace, otherwise you may end up regretting it.

[Abbeys]

Maybe boys are not for you?

[Living For Love]

This is not puberty related. :locked: