locker room, what to do?

[NoName2001]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?

[NZPerson]

If u start wearing ur briefs in the shower it only makes you a bigger target and people would wonder why ur hiding ur junk. If hes being a douche, ask to move lockers or be just tell him hes being rude and its bullying. Sometime people make fun without realiseing its actually making u feel like shit.

[pconnor2001]

I wouldn't wear briefs in the shower. Kids that try that here or skip showers really get picked on.

[Jason Mark]

Walk naked to the shower with your head up. And just accept he's a total fucking asshole, and move on. Maybe he'll come around. Don't sweat it, but don't write him off, either. Some guys who were my sworn enemies later ended up as my closest friends.

[Slashman1]

Not let it bother you he is just being a jerk and even he makes you really made just say out loud "why you looking" thats a last option thing to do but just don't let it bother you your still growing

[Hankster65]

Yep just a dumbass kid don't let it get to ya!

[ska8er]

DONT wear ur underwear to the showers-it will
b more s**t talk for him to belittle u and even
more so to have other jackasses to join in. As
for talking bout ur penis-ask him Y he is so
interested in commenting on it and then show
him he is not getting to u-if he sees that he is
making u uncomfortable he will do it more.

[ska8er]

Walk naked to the shower with your head up. And just accept he's a total fucking asshole, and move on. Maybe he'll come around. Don't sweat it, but don't write him off, either. Some guys who were my sworn enemies later ended up as my closest friends.

Good angle here of maybe his way of becoming friends. He
could b insecure but its a bullying way of getting around it-but
I agree ive seen it-it happened to me. :rolleyes:

[zzzzzzzzzz]

He bein a jerk. Just ignore him or question him. Wear whatever underwear you want. Call him out for looking or just keep away from him

[Dave2u]

This is the best answer, feel proud of yourself. Some of do not show as well as others. Do not worry about this guy, you are the only one that can allow yourself to feel intimidated. Just throw the towel over your shoulder and walk proudly to the shower. Ignore him.

Walk naked to the shower with your head up. And just accept he's a total fucking asshole, and move on. Maybe he'll come around. Don't sweat it, but don't write him off, either. Some guys who were my sworn enemies later ended up as my closest friends.

[kyrocks03]

Walk naked to the shower with your head up. And just accept he's a total fucking asshole, and move on. Maybe he'll come around. Don't sweat it, but don't write him off, either. Some guys who were my sworn enemies later ended up as my closest friends.

This.

He's a toolbag. Ignore him, or if you must tell him to fuck off. Don't wear underwear in the shower though, that will just be cause for teasing. Everyone one of us was small at one time or another.

[rynoblue]

i ignore it. im small 2 but dont wear ur underwear cuz your gonna get made fun of more. but if u ignore him he will go away or make fun of someone else

[pjones]

ask him if he likes your penis and underwear since he comments on them. you can always tell your coach or teacher privately. don't accept being bullied

[rynoblue]

ask him if he likes your penis and underwear since he comments on them. you can always tell your coach or teacher privately. don't accept being bullied

i didnt think bout askin that

[Jthompson]

Don't wear breifs to the shower. It's not gonna help. Start wearing plain boxer briefs so he doesn't make fun of your underwear anymore. The penis thing you won't be able to help. But don't be ashamed of it cause everyone develops differently.

[Tpyro]

Hey. You cant show it bugs you, that feeds him. jason mark said exactly what to do. 80% of guys are growers remember.he may like you if he focuses that much on you. Stand straight , give it a little tug , walk to the shower say hi with confidence dont let it bug you. I also agree with pjones but dont go to the teacher unless hes really bulling you instead of little raz. You could say loud enought other guy hear, you look at and comment about my dick every day is that you way of saying you want it that may embarrasse him a lot.

[Hermes]

There are some things you can do. The one thing you don't do is anything that suggests he is succeeding in making you feel bad or embarrassed. You can:

1. Point out the error of his ways. Don't waste too much time on this one, though.
2. Ignore him completely. Give as little reaction to what he says as possible.
3. Go on the offensive - find a weakness of his and get your own back. There is a famous snippet of conversation between Lady Stor and Sir Winston Churchill....

Lady Astor: "Sir, you are disgustingly drunk."
Churchill: "My dear, you are ugly, and what’s more, you are disgustingly ugly. But tomorrow I shall be sober and you will still be disgustingly ugly."

So, "In a year or two my cock will have grown, it may even be bigger than yours, and you'll still be <insert insult of choice>"

[sdavid54321]

i got teased about my penis in the showers before it skinks but i just try to ignore it

[kev1998]

I would ask them why they are looking. Do it in front of a group of people and they will be embarrassed.

[drhalsey1]

Kevin's idea is good, if they point something out just ask why they're looking in the first place. Also possibly report it to the coach or teacher in charge or have your locker changed

[steellord321]

If i can handle being the only uncut guy on the entire team you can handle 1 douchebag. If you go in underwear you will look ridiculous, the teasing will only get worse and probly from more than 1 guy, and he's seen your penis anyway. There's no going back

I know it sucks but i would just ignore it seriously. He'll get bored and move on

[SeansLittleBro]

He's a jerk he is a bully and needs to grow up as others have said just be heads up and ask him what he is looking at. I'm not so sure that noname said that he wears the underwear INTO the shower but the guy is making fun of him when he showers if you do keep your underwear on then take it off but i don't think that is what you said

[hairy balls]

I wouldnt let it bug you too much, He's a jerk he is a bully and needs to grow up as others have said just ask him what he is looking at and say loud hay dude are you gay or what just leave my cock alone mate

[Sean2]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?

I think he's not very nice and you ought to try to ignore him.

[Eli.]

Don't let it get to you- and as said before, ask why was looking at your penis. Don't wear briefs to the shower, that will make you more of a target.

[Kyle37]

If you shower naked when you're younger, you have to accept that your dick won't be as big as it will eventually be. And anyways, who cares its a dude saying that your dick is small not a girl, so his opinion doesn't matter. Not sure why he would make fun of your underwear. Most people wear boxer-briefs. If you don't you probably should they're really comfy.

[volleyballer13]

Hey sorry to hear you are being bullied. its not cool. i would just ignore him but if it keeps happening or gets worse tell a teacher.

[Vegas2933]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?

We're not required to have showers or to change underwear where I live, but I do get a lot of grief over the amount of chest hair I have. I know it's a completely different situation but the solution is the same, try and ignore the best you can, fight back, or tell someone. Guarantee his is no monster either ;)

[Curious_Guy]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?

Yeah I've had a guy at school like this, picking on me and giving me shit for no reason and it sucks. But I ended up winning in the end. Now I would not recommend wearing your briefs in the shower, it'll just draw attention to yourself and give him more reasons to be a douche bag. I would make a comment to him about why is he always looking at your penis? Does he like what he see's, and I bet that shuts him up. Best of luck and hope it works out for you. Generally these things do or karma bites the bully in the butt.

[dude_g]

Just be comfortable with yourself never be ashamed!

[david_2k]

I got a boner once before and got bullied for being gay and for it being curved and getting called the gay bannana

[ShiningStar]

Be proud of what you got and don't let one stupid ignorant moron bother you. Also you can ask him why he is checking you out.
Ive had similar happen to me... I'm not that big or developed, but I'm proud of what I got and I let people know that:D

[Dames]

avoid underwear in the shower, would make u a bigger target

[MarcusTHoneywell]

just be like "why are you looking at my junk anyways??"

[alohakanaka808]

Yeah you should ask him why he's looking in front of people so that he gets embarrassed and leaves you alone

[datboijoey]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?

What everyone said. Ask him why he's looking at your dick. Make sure you ask him with other kids there.

[NewLeafsFan]

Do NOT wear briefs in the shower. You have nothing to hide.

The guy in the locker next to you is acting very immature. Report him fir making fun of your underwear.

[KBar33]

My dude, don't worry about assholes like that. I personally don't have a penis that is all that huge, and I still wear briefs because I really like the fit and look. The faster you can accept yourself the happier you'll be. The thing that bullies hate the most is seeing that their victims either become very successful in life or are unaffected by what they are saying. With that being said I probably wouldn't wear my briefs into the shower haha.

[pconnor]

I wouldn't wear briefs to the showers when everyone else is naked. That would single you out for more teasing. Ignore him and he will stop.

[countryplowboy]

Yea just be proud of who you are and what you have don't let others bother you. If they see it does they'll keep on. I wear briefs in the locker room and have no problem getting naked. A guy once made a comment about my penis size I just said "hey man thanks for checking out my penis!" he was embarrassed and never said anything else. Don't let other's make you feel bad...I know it's not always easy to ignore...pm me if you wanna chat. Good luck

[NoName2001]

Yea just be proud of who you are and what you have don't let others bother you. If they see it does they'll keep on. I wear briefs in the locker room and have no problem getting naked. A guy once made a comment about my penis size I just said "hey man thanks for checking out my penis!" he was embarrassed and never said anything else. Don't let other's make you feel bad...I know it's not always easy to ignore...pm me if you wanna chat. Good luck

Thanks! yeah, i noticed a couple other guys are wearing briefs now so i dont worry about it so much anymore. he hasn't been saying much about them recently but i still see him looking haha. also my bro helped me with the penis problem and told me that i look just fine and to not worry about it. i'm glad he helped me out and talked to me about it

[countryplowboy]

Thanks! yeah, i noticed a couple other guys are wearing briefs now so i dont worry about it so much anymore. he hasn't been saying much about them recently but i still see him looking haha. also my bro helped me with the penis problem and told me that i look just fine and to not worry about it. i'm glad he helped me out and talked to me about it
Cool! Yea my older brother has been a huge support to me as well. I'm glad yours has helped you. I never understood why people want to bully or make fun of others..
I don't know if it matters but I wear black briefs. Nobody really has said anything..some of the guys that wore white got teased though..good luck!
pm if you wanna chat

[NoName2001]

Cool! Yea my older brother has been a huge support to me as well. I'm glad yours has helped you. I never understood why people want to bully or make fun of others..
I don't know if it matters but I wear black briefs. Nobody really has said anything..some of the guys that wore white got teased though..good luck!
pm if you wanna chat

I don't get the bullying either haha. i dont always wear white ones, i have color ones too. do a lot of guys wear briefs where you are? it's always good to have a brother to help you out through stuff like that, like with clothes and size problems

[countryplowboy]

I don't get the bullying either haha. i dont always wear white ones, i have color ones too. do a lot of guys wear briefs where you are? it's always good to have a brother to help you out through stuff like that, like with clothes and size problems
Yea a lot of guys wear briefs in my school. Its rural south east Tn so "being cool" or trendy stuff is not really important here. Most of the one I've see do wear colors other than white though..were all pretty much friends in gym class so being naked and stuff in the locker rooms is no big deal. I have had a few bullys but they usually end up getting their butt kicked after school..lol

[loki2000]

When he starts picking on the size of your penis ..Say to him in a LOUD aggressive voice. So every one can hear " ( His name ) Why you so interested in my DICK ... you gay .. leave me alone " That`s what I would do ... Plus don`t wear your underwear in the shower ..that means he won ..Be your self ..we all come in different sizes ..Be proud !

[jordand]

maybe don't shower till you grow?

[TWDjacob]

Joke around and ask why he's always looking at it. i would also talk to the gym teacher about it because its considered bullying/harassment

[pconnor]

Ask him why he is looking is likely the best advice. I wouldn't shower in yer briefs though as that will get you teased more.

[matt1]

It's who you are, own it. If people see you're not embarrassed you're less likely to get teased. I bet it's grown since you first posted this too

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

So, there is a guy who's locker is right next to mine and he is always making fun of me. he makes fun of my underwear and since we have to shower he makes fun of my penis since i'm not very big.... i was thinking of starting to wear my briefs to the shower or something... what do you guys think?
If hes being a douche, ask to move lockers or just tell him hes being rude and its bullying. Sometime people make fun without realiseing its actually making u feel like shit.
I'm with him. You just have to stand up for yourself and remember you have time to grow. Bullies are usually fueled by an insecurity. I guarantee you he doesn't feel confident in his own penis. If you need to go over his head, go to a coach or other person in an authority position. Stay confident in yourself and your own body if you can. That may make this guy more aggressive because he sees you secure in yourself, but by that point, you won't care.