View Full Version : She may be out of my league...
baseball211
October 21st, 2016, 06:59 PM
His is right the same girl I posted about messaging a few days back. We go to the same schools, I'm a juniors and she's a sophomore. She's definitely at the highest ever social group, she hangs out around some of the most popular people in her grade. For perspective, she's has 760 followers on Instagram gram and has only followed 320. I'm not at the top of our grade's social group, but I'm more popular than 50-60% of my grade. I talk and get along with any social group so I don't really have that typical high school friend group because I get along with everyone. So I'm thinking she may be out of my league since she's more popular than me, but after all I am a junior and it looks good for a sophomore girl to date a junior. I've been told I'm the nicest person people know and stuff like that so I think I'll be able to get her even if she is out of my league. Opinions?
Babs
October 21st, 2016, 10:31 PM
Don't play into that status bullshit. If somebody is worthy of your time, they will decide whether or not they like you based on your character and personality, not instagram followers or whatever else.
If you wanna talk to someone, just do it because it doesn't matter and no one gives a shit about leagues and shit.
Phosphene
October 21st, 2016, 10:36 PM
Don't play into that status bullshit. If somebody is worthy of your time, they will decide whether or not they like you based on your character and personality, not instagram followers or whatever else.
If you wanna talk to someone, just do it because it doesn't matter and no one gives a shit about leagues and shit.
I second this. And if all she cares about is leagues and how many followers you have, she's not worth your time.
Just JT
October 22nd, 2016, 11:11 AM
You should follow how you feel. You obviously like her in some degree, so go for it. Worst she can say is no, and if she says yes yiu might make a really great friendship with her. Don't be hung up on status and social whatever's, there not real, and only give a false perception of who someone really is. Friends and followers on social media are only numbers, numbers that have no meaning in a true relationship.
Go for it have a blast, but also hold your head up if you get rejected as well, it's not the end of the world, just move on
ashdyn
October 31st, 2016, 11:31 AM
Fuck social media stats dude lol
My gf has like over a thousand followers on IG and a ton on twitter too. I'm pretty popular I just don't social media much. When we first started dating I'd say she was way more popular than me plus she was older but that didn't stop me lol
Go for it!
JJcon
November 1st, 2016, 06:44 PM
If she Isn't a total bi*ch she won't mind the social diferences. The worst thing you can do is prabobly taking someone out of your league, since love isn't about money and social media popularity. If you like her and she likes you I see no problem.
Peace!
DefinitelyNotY
November 2nd, 2016, 08:00 PM
Like everyone else... Go for it!
although a lot of people cares about popularity, in terms of love... nobody gives a fuck
Try it, even if you fail, in a few months, nobody is going to remember it
Cjmccjface
November 8th, 2016, 02:24 AM
Don't buy yourself into the social status bullshit buddy. Ture Love isn't about how many friends you have, or how many IG/Twitter People
Follow you.
The Corporations want you to believe that. And it's a load of shit. Any girl who belives in social status as a key factor in choosing a boy, tbh doesn't diserve your affection.
" Love conquers all"
Remember that.
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