what am i doing wrong :(

[ravioli]

hey guys :/
ive had a crush on my friend for a year. last year was rly rough for me and sometimes he was the only reason i came to school. we have a lot in common and hes rly easy for me to talk to and he makes me rly happy :)
anyway i finally was brave enough to tell him how i feel last week and it didnt go so well. he was rly nice about it but now i just feel rly sad and stupid idk i thought he would be the first person who ever actually liked me but i guess i was wrong :(
im rly down now bc i just made things awkward w one of my best friends and plus i feel like ill never have a boyfriend like im already 16 most of my friends have been in a relationship or are in one now.. if nobodys liked me so far why would anyone want me in the future theres got to be something wrong w me idk. ppl always say oh youll meet someone one day but what if thats not true. this is real life not a movie...
yeah sorry if this is confusing i just wanted to know what someone else would say. i dont rly have anyone to talk to about this..
thanks

[Sariss]

Sometimes you don't do anything wrong, and things are not meant to be. If he didn't feel the same as you, then it is best to move on. I know it's cliché, but there really is someone out there for everyone. Though no two people are a perfect match, I feel like everyone can connect with someone :)

[Palewaves]

Everything in this world can't go your way, sorry but that's the truth. If I were you I would move on but still be good friends with him, if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you at least have a great friendship with him. Plus high school relationships usually don't end well, you don't need to have a boyfriend because all your friends have boyfriends, this is high school, it's where you learn to be yourself and quit trying to impress others or be like others. I hope i helped your situation, if not, at least I tried.

[jamie_n5]

I think you may have just put him on the spot where he really didn't know what to say. Give him a little time to think. If he doesn't respond to you in a reasonable time then go talk to him and tell him that no matter what you just want to remain friends. Also you will probably have several relationships before you find Mr. Right so do worry so much about peer pressure.

[Tesserax]

hey guys :/
ive had a crush on my friend for a year. last year was rly rough for me and sometimes he was the only reason i came to school. we have a lot in common and hes rly easy for me to talk to and he makes me rly happy :)
anyway i finally was brave enough to tell him how i feel last week and it didnt go so well. he was rly nice about it but now i just feel rly sad and stupid idk i thought he would be the first person who ever actually liked me but i guess i was wrong :(
im rly down now bc i just made things awkward w one of my best friends and plus i feel like ill never have a boyfriend like im already 16 most of my friends have been in a relationship or are in one now.. if nobodys liked me so far why would anyone want me in the future theres got to be something wrong w me idk. ppl always say oh youll meet someone one day but what if thats not true. this is real life not a movie...
yeah sorry if this is confusing i just wanted to know what someone else would say. i dont rly have anyone to talk to about this..
thanks

Well, you're right. Real life isn't a movie, but that's why you'll meet somebody right for you one day. You have to grind through countless rejections, bad relationships that turn sour, and many other difficulties before you find the right person for you. It's just the way it goes, and I'm looking myself. I'm 18, and I've never had a real, stable relationship, but I'm still looking, you just gotta keep trying

[ravioli]

Sometimes you don't do anything wrong, and things are not meant to be. If he didn't feel the same as you, then it is best to move on. I know it's cliché, but there really is someone out there for everyone. Though no two people are a perfect match, I feel like everyone can connect with someone :)
thanks i hope thats true

[ravioli]

Everything in this world can't go your way, sorry but that's the truth. If I were you I would move on but still be good friends with him, if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you at least have a great friendship with him. Plus high school relationships usually don't end well, you don't need to have a boyfriend because all your friends have boyfriends, this is high school, it's where you learn to be yourself and quit trying to impress others or be like others. I hope i helped your situation, if not, at least I tried.
thanks but i dont want to have a boyfriend because my friends have one. its because i think it would be nice haha but thanks

[ravioli]

I think you may have just put him on the spot where he really didn't know what to say. Give him a little time to think. If he doesn't respond to you in a reasonable time then go talk to him and tell him that no matter what you just want to remain friends. Also you will probably have several relationships before you find Mr. Right so do worry so much about peer pressure.
oh yeah i thought so too. i sent a message to say sorry and he was really nice about it and said he didnt feel the same way but he still wants to be friends. but thanks. my friends arent really pressuring me to get a boyfriend. i guess im the only one worrying about these kinds of things lol

[ravioli]

Well, you're right. Real life isn't a movie, but that's why you'll meet somebody right for you one day. You have to grind through countless rejections, bad relationships that turn sour, and many other difficulties before you find the right person for you. It's just the way it goes, and I'm looking myself. I'm 18, and I've never had a real, stable relationship, but I'm still looking, you just gotta keep trying
thank you :)