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mark_r100
October 17th, 2016, 08:14 PM
A lot of guys on football team especially are always bragging about losing their virginity (I think some is BS). Its not a big deal to me but makes me wonder if maybe if I am jerking too much and its kinda getting in the way. If I stop for a couple of days its unbearable so I don't want to get so horny i do something stupid. Any suggestions
ska8er
October 18th, 2016, 06:35 AM
Stay clear of the team mascot.
Atlantis
October 18th, 2016, 10:18 AM
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Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow2: Puberty for All
jamie_n5
October 18th, 2016, 12:25 PM
Your virginity should be something very special to you I believe. You should wait until you find someone that you feel very special about and love and care deeply for them. Don't just go out and find some girl to have sex with just so you can claim your victory in loosing your virginity. That subject should be private and special to only you and the person you lost it to.
NZPerson
October 18th, 2016, 01:41 PM
People have made fun if me for not having had have sex yet, this is kinda annoying but i actually do want to wait till i find a guy im somewhat attracted to which has yet to happen. For me its not about losing my virginity but more about not having sex with every man and his dog so tp speak.
ClaraWho
October 18th, 2016, 02:06 PM
Some clear points have been made here which you should take into consideration.

More importantly, it may mean nothing to you, but it will probably mean A LOT to a potential partner. So don't be that guy.

~ Clara
Hermes
October 18th, 2016, 03:02 PM
It depends how you see sex.

Clearly some of the guys of the footnall team see losing their virginity as some kind of conquest and hence something to brag about. That's certainly not how I see it.

Cumming feels great whatever leads to it. What makes sex special is doing with someone you love. It's something to share, not a case of conquering her.

So could martubating less make you less choosy about who you contemplate having sex with and cause you to lose your vaginity sooner? Maybe, but that is solving a non-problem and later you may wish you had remained more choosy.
Atlantis
November 16th, 2016, 01:59 PM
OP banned. :locked: