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orangeyes
October 11th, 2016, 12:32 PM
Ok… so, I have been talking to a guy over snapchat and we decided to meet up not too long ago. We did meet and stuff and ended up sleeping over at his house. We started making out and we had sex. After that, we were cuddling it was a cute moment. But I felt something was off and I went to see his facebook profile and I saw he had a boyfriend… So he cheated on his boyfriend with me. I asked him why he had a boyfriend and he said that his life sucks and that he feels forced to be in his current relationship. I understood but later I still had questions in my head when we were with his friends. He wasn't giving me attention like he was when were alone, like I felt rejected. He acts like his boyfriend is so great around his friends but that's clearly not what he told me. Later I asked him what will he do with him and he told that time will take care of it. I feel like he's really interested in me but he can't show his emotions in front of his friends because they know he has boyfriend. I'm really confused by this situation and what should I do to get him? Wait? Because I like him a lot… and even after he told me he's unhappy in his relationship, I saw his Snapchat Story with his boyfriend kissing and stuff

Oasis
October 11th, 2016, 05:08 PM
You need to tell him to get his priorities straight, now I get you really like him but he can't keep cheating on him with you it's not right no matter what the circumstances are (in my personal opinion) so if I were you I would tell him: look, I really do like you but you need to choose, me or him, I'm not playing games

ClaraWho
October 11th, 2016, 06:44 PM
He used you for sex. Tale as old as time. He's no interest in a relationship or leaving his boyfriend, you were just a cheap fling. Crap happens. Get tested for STI's as he probably sleeps around a lot. Next time may I advise you don't have sex for a while after getting into a relationship. That way there are far less surprises about whom you'get just slept with.

~ Clara

jamie_n5
October 12th, 2016, 07:25 PM
Man being in a love triangle can be a very dangerous thing. You better be sure of his real intentions and if you really care for him and don't mind waiting. It is just not a good thing. It can really mess with your head and really hurt you if you find out he is just using you as a guy on the side. Just keep your senses keen and I hope you make the right choices and don't end up getting hurt.

Mami
October 12th, 2016, 07:28 PM
This is going to suck to hear, but it seems he used you for sex. The odds of him actually breaking up with his boyfriend are most likely very low. I've been through a similar thing, didn't end very well. But I mean, if you really are convinced his intentions are good, then I guess continue waiting.

SeansLittleBro
October 30th, 2016, 12:31 PM
Like has been said it is likely you are "the other guy" and he is trying to enjoy a relationship with something extra on the side Neither his relationship or you will last too long if he keeps this up and it could end up hurting you break it off even tho you say you really like him until he braks up with his BF but be careful chances are good that you could be the next BF that he cheats on

Just JT
October 30th, 2016, 06:23 PM
If he really cared for you the way you want him to this wouldn't be an issue
If he cheated on his BF he will cheat on you
Out of the pan into the fire