Don't know what to do anymore

[TheWolf]

Hi everyone! So, I have a group of friends with guys and girls. I suspect one of the girls in my group likes me (because she's always touching me, everytime she can she comes to my place and other things). Problem is I don't like her in any way, and even though I constantly try to show it (getting her hands off me for example) she doesn't seem to notice it. I can't be direct and tell her to stop because it would be rude and knowing her she would probably act like she doesn't like me.

If she doesn't like me everything would be fine, but I don't wanna risk it. Can you give me any advice as to what to do to show her I'm not interested? THANKS FOR THE HELP. :)

[TheFutureDoctor]

I don't really know man, its a tough one. Maybe try gently suggesting you don't really like her in that way? Or just siszone her :P

[jamie_n5]

Well if you don't want to tell her that you aren't interested in dating her or anything I don't know how to help you. You might tell her that you want to be casual friends but that is it. This would be just honest and not rude.

[ska8er]

Just tell her u only want to be good
friends and nothing more-if she gets
the hint she will leave u alone if not
then tell her to cool it.

[Flapjack]

Just be polite and kind buddy, maybe state to the group how you don't want a gf, or how you like someone else or just pretend you haven't noticed until she asks you out and then politely say you're not ready for a relationship or you like being single or theres someone else or whatever :) Just be nice and polite and don't lead her on :)

[SeansLittleBro]

Agree with both sk8er and Flapjack be nice to her suggest that you want to be good friends and aren't really looking for a relationship this is a tough one but you have to do what is right for you and if you don't say something you might lead her on more than you will push her away

[ClaraWho]

I would bring up someone else that you like in that way in casual conversation. She may just be a very touchy/feely person in general, I'm that way with friends but I do ask if they mind first. If you don't like it you really do need to say so and be firm, not really a way around that.

But yes, talking about having a crush (even an invented one on someone the group doesn't know), that's probably the best way forward. Or just play it secretive and say 'there is someone in my life', leave it at that.

You do have my sympathy though as it can be really awkward...

~ Clara