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Brightwolf
October 8th, 2016, 08:03 AM
What are some tips for confidence? I have low self-esteem and I know that's part of the reason why I can't really talk to girls, so any tips would be appreciated.
Cadanance00
October 8th, 2016, 08:13 AM
Act like it doesn't really matter, like you can life without them if they don't like you. Don't automatically assume a girl doesn't like you. Most just want to find out who you are before they get to know you. Assume you're worth knowing and act like it.
Find a girl to coach you. I'm lucky I've got my sis, she's pretty honest with me, like 'ew, you said that!'
Just JT
October 8th, 2016, 04:26 PM
Body language says a lot more than people think. So if you walk standing g up straight, head up, looking strait ahead and not hunched forward looking down, people will hire you as being more confident, and will respond to you in a way that will reflect your confidence.
When someone speaks to you or you to them, look them straight in the eye.
Smile when you greet people, goes a million miles
TheFutureDoctor
October 9th, 2016, 06:41 AM
okay mine may be a bit different :P
Try to think of your strengths. You can also think in your mind like I'm the coolest of em all or just you know, reassure yourself mentally in tough situations. Maintain good posture, flex your hand while doing a handshake, and be well groomed.
ashdyn
October 10th, 2016, 02:49 AM
Be yourself and be comfortable with who that is. If people (girls) don't like you for who you are then you don't need them around you anyway.
Dress nice....clean shoes are definitely a plus.
Do your hair...or make sure your hat game is on point
Body language conveys so much so stand up straight, make eye contact, smile a lot
Pay attention to whoever you're going to be talking to so you can pick up on what to talk to them about and you'll cut down on awkward silence. Work on conversational transitions too...also to avoid awkward silence
Remora
October 10th, 2016, 04:23 AM
Something that really helped me deal with my crippling social anxiety, and, with that, confidence, is the realization that at anytime you're speaking to someone and they're not being all "ugh pls leave" or the likes, they're having fun and enjoying being with you.
Something else that helped me alot, if you're not doing it already; work out! not only is it healthy physically, but it'll also help you feel alot better in your head, and over time you might be able to look down at yourself and realize that you've no reason not to be confident. I'm not just talking about pushups and situps and whateverups but also just sports like badminton or soccer or football or rugby or basketball c: also help you build social circles
and very important!!! get enough sleep! simplew but essential!
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