What is the boundary?

[ashdaniel]

I see a lot of people talking about experience or learning from brother or cousin. I want to ask what was your experience and how far did you go? I don't have a brother but growing up my cousin taught me few things about mastrubate and talk about sex and stuff. They are few years older than me. I also have teach my younger cousin and talk about those stuff to him but I went further which he did saw and touch my boner and bit more.
For those who have similar experiences what you done and how far did you go?
Also did you think you pass the boundary/limited and do you think it is okay?

[NZPerson]

I think i boundary is where things become romantic rather than just sexual.

[Slashman1]

I think i boundary is where things become romantic rather than just sexual.

i agree with this

[football matt]

I have an older bro and we talked and he showed me stuff, I think that's normal. As far as any boundary it depends are the person just don't do anything your not comfortable with.

[Just JT]

I think the boundary is where you come to a point that one person does not want to participate in something, but is anyways. And also, boundaries are about what the law allows. So it'll be different from person to person, and from one place to another

Based on other posts you've made in the past about these similar topics, think you should be very careful with your family members. It could turn bad very easliy, very fast

[ska8er]

My best friend who for the past three years I
have experimented with and who keeps tellin
me hes straight grabbed my junk when we were
12 and things haven't been the same since. Hes
a State wrestler and I think that is their way to
indiscreetly get physical with another male without
consequence.

[jamie_n5]

I don't think experimenting with friends or cousins or even brothers is bad. You just have to draw the line there so that you don't enter in incest with a sibling.

[Second Chance]

I see a lot of people talking about experience or learning from brother or cousin. I want to ask what was your experience and how far did you go? I don't have a brother but growing up my cousin taught me few things about mastrubate and talk about sex and stuff. They are few years older than me. I also have teach my younger cousin and talk about those stuff to him but I went further which he did saw and touch my boner and bit more.
For those who have similar experiences what you done and how far did you go?
Also did you think you pass the boundary/limited and do you think it is okay?

I agree with the person above who said that a boundary is stopping when a person does not want to do anything further or says no.

The person above is right that you have to be really careful with your cousin because things can turn bad. It is one thing to help your cousin, but it is another if you get turned on by doing sexual things with him. Assuming your cousin is young based upon other posts you have made on this topic you have to remember he might not know boundaries since he trusts you. If you are doing physical things with the kid, then that is dangerous territory. It is one thing if you are talking with him about questions, but it is something totally different if you are both doing physical things with each other. My opinion is if you find that you are getting horny because of your cousin and are doing sexual things with him, then you have crossed a boundary and should stop doing things with him for your safety and his. Neither of you should be naked with each other or be touching each other down there such as what you described because that will lead to a lot of problems.

[Child Of Fire]

My brother and I have a little agreement going on. He does his thing, I do mine. If he does something, I don't want to know about it. If I do something, he doesn't want to know about it. There were times when he brought up the subject but that was mostly to poke fun at me. So I guess you can say our boundaries are very simple.

I didn't learn a damn thing from him, nor did he learn anything from me. We're completely separate.

[SeansLittleBro]

I think i boundary is where things become romantic rather than just sexual.

I agree with this My brothers and I have masturbated together many times and even each other but it was both experiementation and fun only

[Niceguy17]

I was pretty young when my cousin taught me. He told me what to do and we were in dark room together. We didn't touch or look at each other when we did it. At that point I was unable to cum.

[mark_r100]

no one really taught me..i was always curious about my older brother and a few times i saw him jerking in the bathroom we shared. it make much sense to me at the time but later on i tried it.

[niklas]

I think i boundary is where things become romantic rather than just sexual.

I think this is a good answer. It's also a matter of personal comfort so I'd think everyone might have a different boundary. I've had experiences with my cousins as well as my brother and it's never felt uncomfortable (admittedly a bit awkward the first time) and it's never negatively affected my relationship with them - in fact, for me I'd say the opposite has been true, especially with my brother. We're very close and have 100% trust in each other so I think we're able to share and talk about things that maybe some other brothers can't.