What do I do?

[Lukenole6]

(note: this is kind of a long story and there are details I may not add. I have NOT dated before.) Hello, my name is Luke and I'm 13 and in 8th grade. Back in first grade there was a girl I really liked. I thought she was cute and funny but I was obviously not allowed to date and waaaay to shy to even talk to her. She moved to a different school for 2nd grade but came back for 3rd. Now moving on to 5th grade and I still didn't talk to her even though I liked her a lot. Her friend then told me she liked me and I thought it was bs. It was not. To my surprise this girl that I liked for 4 years and thought I had NO chance with, liked me. So I tried to talk to her but was way to shy and felt pressured by my friends. It really sucked because I was really shy and wasn't allowed to date. We *kind of* dated but not really. She broke up with me during the summer because I didn't talk to her and I completely blame myself. I fell like this could've been more but it wasn't. I still like her today and I have no idea what to do. Do I get over it? Do I ask her out? It would mean a lot to me if you answered in the comments. Thanks! (Note: I'm not stupid, mean, that one guy that tries to hard to be cool, and I try to be nice as possible to other people.)

[jamie_n5]

Well why don't you talk to her and apologize for upsetting her and tell you know it was your fault. Tell her that you really like her and tell her you want her back.
If not you are 13 and most likely will have several other relationships before you find miss right. Good luck man.

[Lukenole6]

Well why don't you talk to her and apologize for upsetting her and tell you know it was your fault. Tell her that you really like her and tell her you want her back.
If not you are 13 and most likely will have several other relationships before you find miss right. Good luck man.

Thanks a lot! If I ever build up the courage I might talk to her. Otherwise I'll try my best to get over it.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Well why don't you talk to her and apologize for upsetting her and tell you know it was your fault. Tell her that you really like her and tell her you want her back.
If not you are 13 and most likely will have several other relationships before you find miss right. Good luck man.

Thanks a lot! If I ever build up the courage I might talk to her. Otherwise I'll try my best to get over it.

It's good advice, and good luck. I hope she get's back with you.

[ClaraWho]

If you are the same person she broke up with, with the same circumstances and situation, then no. She left that guy for a reason. If all of that and you have changed - say so and take a chance.

~ Clara

[Just JT]

You are who you are. If your shy, accept and embrace that. Unless you can and want to change that. The reason she broke up with you sounds superficial in a way. If she knows your shy, and likes you, and you like her, seems to ,e you both could work past that some how. A relationship like that is a 2 way street, both sides giving something

You: open up more and talk more, talk about why your shy etc
Her: be more open and accepting to you, your feeling and your shyness

In the end, don't blame yourself, life is what it is, you'll meet someone else, and ya never know, you guys might cross paths a little later down the road, and end up being a very different, better relationship

So smile, talk more, even if it's here, kinda get used to it a little

Good luck

[Lukenole6]

Thank you guys so much for the advice! I might try to tell her how I feel but if she doesn't show any interest I'll try to move on.