Can I pretend nothing happened with boy in my class

[Claire Asteroid]

I've just started university and in the first week I got drunk and was dancing with a guy on my course. We ended up kissing and then I went back to his room. We didn't do anything really, we just kissed a bit more then I went to sleep in his bed with him. But it is the first time I've slept in the same bed as a guy I've just met and I feel like I shouldn't have done it, because I don't even know him and it's not something I'd normally do. Now I have to go to classes with him. I don't want to do it again with him. How do I pretend nothing happened and still go to class with him?

[Uniquemind]

So he was more of a curious fling in the physical sense? Or was there an emotional connection?

If there was a connection, are you backing off because your psyching and freaking yourself out or did you basically loose interest?

[ClaraWho]

Just pass it off as being the alcohol and say no, you can do anything you like. Don't let him pressure you into anything. Also now you know how you will behave when drunk, maybe drink less or don't get into those circumstances again.

~ Clara

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Don't say anything. If he does, just tell him once it was a mistake and won't happen again.

[jamie_n5]

You can't pretend that it didn't happen because it did and you both know it. You have to deal with this as an adult. You are not a little girl any more. I think you could date this guy if you wanted to. You simply tell him that because you were drinking too much was the reason you fell asleep and slept with him in his bed. You had no intention of doing this and it won't happen again like that. I am sure that he will understand if he is any kind of a decent man.

[hesaidhesaid]

You can't pretend it didn't happen because you're both conscious that it did. But just brush it off and never bring it up again. Having said that, this is a very good reason why I REFUSE to drink alcohol.

You're welcome.

[shy_indian_chick]

honestly this kind of thing happens quite a lot - if you don't make a big deal of it, i really doubt he will.

[Just JT]

Why pretend?
You had a good time right? He probably did to, and that's a good thing. You did go out and have crazy, taboo, unprotected sex with a group in a group on unknown guys did you?
No
You met someone, had some fun, messed around some, which is totally normal, just as it is sharing a bed someone you feel close to or just fell asleep with. Doesn't need to involve complete sex just cause you slept in the same bed
Do the mature and grow up thing, don't ignore it, get to know him, maybe he's a really cool guy you'd wana get to know more

[ashdyn]

Y'all didn't even really do anything lol

I've done some pretty shameful things/people during drunken one night stands that I literally just erase from my memory. The other day I ran into an old one night stand and didn't even remember who they were when they said hi until I got home lmao