help im going crazy !!

[tinker-bell]

hey i need help i was with this boy for like 10 months and we were engaged and planing a family but then we split up but we were still meeting up for sex and stuff......... then we didn't talk for nearly a year then i was really missing him then he started talking to me again and saying he misses me so he had a car at this point so i met up with him again and we had sex again massive mistake!! at this point id fallen back in love with then like a week after i herd he was with another girl ,,,,, now she is pregnant with his child and engaged i know he was forgotten about me but i cant be another relationship it feels wrong can somone help me ??

[PinkFloyd]

Wow, that sounds like quite a mess... I'm really sorry you're going through this right now. It's obvious that he once really cared about you a lot. That means that the past is not the past. You should get in contact with him and sort things out. Ask questions like how he sees his relationship with you and all that. Godo luck, and again, I'm sorry about the fact you have to deal with this messed up situation.

[tinker-bell]

he wont talk to me hes blocked me on everything

[Uniquemind]

he wont talk to me hes blocked me on everything

What a jerk...

To be honest he's a deceiver he should know better and man up to take care of loose ends in his life respectfully. Sadly that's the position your in right now, I'd say you have to grieve and slowly move on.

You might need your close girlfriends or a therapist on this one.

[Phosphene]

What a jerk...

To be honest he's a deceiver he should know better and man up to take care of loose ends in his life respectfully. Sadly that's the position your in right now, I'd say you have to grieve and slowly move on.

You might need your close girlfriends or a therapist on this one.

I second this. You deserve someone better than that who will respect you enough to resolve any existing issues with you. I'm sorry you had to go through this :hug:

[ClaraWho]

Agree with the above however would also posit 10 months is far, far too short to be getting engaged. Especially at a young age when people change so drastically each year. Next time take it slow and hold off on the sex. Sex releases bonding hormones that just confuse the entire situation.

~ Clara

[jamie_n5]

I am sorry for all that you have been through. He is a real jerk. Pretending to want to come back to you when all he wanted was sex again from you. I know you are heartbroken and all confused but you are going to have to let the deceiving, cheating asshole go. It was basically like he committed adultery on you. Forgive yourself for being tricked by him and deceived by him. Try spend sometime with friends and lean on them for support. You will find a guy who is worthy of you some day. You are not at fault here at all my sweet girl you just had a guy that just wanted regular sex with you and obviously didn't truly love you. Again I really feel for you. Keep your chin up and be strong and you will be alright.