ninja1010
October 2nd, 2016, 10:59 PM
So I'm with this girl that I really like. We started texting a few weeks ago and went to homecoming together a week ago. Since then we've been putting ourselves out as boyfriend and girlfriend.
We were on the phone earlier and she jokingly blocked me on Instagram. She then has issues following me again so she asked me to log into her account and see if it worked on my phone.
It did not work and we learned she would just have to wait. However.... I was a little nosy.... needless to say I fell into the temptation of her DMs.
Negatives:
-I learned she is not a virgin, contrary to what she has told me
-she had apparently been bouncing between two guys
-she began to like another guy in between those two guys
-she had been talking to two other guys, simultaneously
Positives:
-turned down a nude request
-turned down a sex request
-has unfollowed the two guys she had been bouncing between
I probably forgot things, but i started getting really worked. But, I started looking at the dates on everything. I then started looking at the messages with her friends. She had a few messages about me where she was genuinely very excited. In the time she had started talking to me, she ignored all messages from guys trying to talk to her.
She has told me about her past boyfriends and we have labeled me as the first douchebag. I know she planned on telling me things later into our relationship.... I just feel extremely bad about going through her DMs. My jealousy started getting in the way... and I just don't know whether or not to tell her.
She has let me know that she has smoked pot before, but doesnt do it regularly. She has told me a lot of things and I've been okay with it... I really hate the idea of keeping score but I feel like with everything I've been fine with, she shouldn't be too upset with this.
I understand what shes done in the past is her past. This also makes her sound a lot worse than she is. 😂
We were on the phone earlier and she jokingly blocked me on Instagram. She then has issues following me again so she asked me to log into her account and see if it worked on my phone.
It did not work and we learned she would just have to wait. However.... I was a little nosy.... needless to say I fell into the temptation of her DMs.
Negatives:
-I learned she is not a virgin, contrary to what she has told me
-she had apparently been bouncing between two guys
-she began to like another guy in between those two guys
-she had been talking to two other guys, simultaneously
Positives:
-turned down a nude request
-turned down a sex request
-has unfollowed the two guys she had been bouncing between
I probably forgot things, but i started getting really worked. But, I started looking at the dates on everything. I then started looking at the messages with her friends. She had a few messages about me where she was genuinely very excited. In the time she had started talking to me, she ignored all messages from guys trying to talk to her.
She has told me about her past boyfriends and we have labeled me as the first douchebag. I know she planned on telling me things later into our relationship.... I just feel extremely bad about going through her DMs. My jealousy started getting in the way... and I just don't know whether or not to tell her.
She has let me know that she has smoked pot before, but doesnt do it regularly. She has told me a lot of things and I've been okay with it... I really hate the idea of keeping score but I feel like with everything I've been fine with, she shouldn't be too upset with this.
I understand what shes done in the past is her past. This also makes her sound a lot worse than she is. 😂