Etcetera
February 19th, 2014, 11:11 PM
I'm getting so annoyed with my little (half-)brother. He's getting on my last tiny little sliver of nerve left and he's jumping up and down and dancing around on it.
I live with
My step-dad, my mom, my half sisters (ages 9 &11), and my half-brother (age 9 and a twin of the sister that's 9, they'll be ten in a few months).
My half-brother is a little terror most of the time, and it's so frustrating. I'm getting to where I can't stand him. Anyone seen the new furby's within the past two years? Yeah. That's how he is - his act switches like the snap of a finger for no reason. One second he will be so pissed and he'll be going and hugging you constantly and being all lovey then the next running through the house screaming and yelling I hate you and crap. He's not bipolar, he has ADHD and some learning problems though, but other than that he's fine. And a speech impediment. But he's driving me absolutely insane, and he does things and it gets dismissed and excused and I'm sick of it.
My siblings get out of school before me, so when my mom picked me up today they were already in the car as they are every day. Shortly after picking me up mom's phone rang, so she was on the phone for a while. He was sitting behind me and kept making these lip smacking noises behind me like a camel. My mom can't hear well and she's about to get hearing aids, so she couldn't hear it. And he knew that, and it was bugging us and we asked him several times to stop, but since mom couldn't hear it, he continued as we were driving 10 minutes down the road. I told him if he didn't stop, it was going to be on later. He kept doing it.
We got home I "smacked" him on the cheek when he got out of the car, but I didn't hit him hard enough to even hurt him. He made it a much bigger deal than it really was (mom was still on the phone), so we were outside of the car standing in the yard and he's freaking out and I said "stop it. I told you to stop and you didn't and I didn't even hurt you, but I will if you don't quit being a little butt-crack." So here's the good part. He POKES HIMSELF IN THE EYE to produce tears and makes himself cry so he's standing there fake crying and told mom that I hit him and he tried to get me in trouble, meanwhile mom was still on the phone. It didn't work with mom because I explained after she got off of the phone, but he still didn't get in trouble.
Then, after church tonight, we were in the parking lot and mom was talking to another lady. I was on the right side of the car and he was on the left (the side facing my mom). I was sitting in the seat and he was leaning in the left side door and he kept hitting me then moving back so I couldn't do anything. I said "if you touch me again, whatever body part touches me, I am going to break it." And I was very sincere. I was completely fed up with his crap, and him getting away with it as today was the icing on the cake. He acted like he was going to hit me again, and I lunged at him. He shut the door of the car on himself because we were parked on a hill. Then apparently the door hurt him, so he started "crying" again, and told mom that I had punched him. Mom had seen the entire thing. Did I get in trouble? No. Did he? No.
This is him almost 24/7 and he gets away with it because they give him sympathy because he's the only boy child in the house and three girls. They're like well he has to deal with three girls.. NO. We have to deal with him. And he's a little terror because he knows he will get away with it. I'm sick of us always getting in trouble (because we normally do, especially when he fake cries), today was a rarity that I didn't get in trouble because of his crap.
I'm sorry, but if you got it coming to you, it's your own freaking fault and you shouldn't have messed with that person. And if he keeps up I think he really is going to get hurt. I'm going to snap eventually.
I can't just ignore it. They tell me "ignore him and he will stop." but he doesn't. He keeps on and keeps on and keeps on. It's a never ending cycle and he rarely gets in trouble for anything he does.
I live with
My step-dad, my mom, my half sisters (ages 9 &11), and my half-brother (age 9 and a twin of the sister that's 9, they'll be ten in a few months).
My half-brother is a little terror most of the time, and it's so frustrating. I'm getting to where I can't stand him. Anyone seen the new furby's within the past two years? Yeah. That's how he is - his act switches like the snap of a finger for no reason. One second he will be so pissed and he'll be going and hugging you constantly and being all lovey then the next running through the house screaming and yelling I hate you and crap. He's not bipolar, he has ADHD and some learning problems though, but other than that he's fine. And a speech impediment. But he's driving me absolutely insane, and he does things and it gets dismissed and excused and I'm sick of it.
My siblings get out of school before me, so when my mom picked me up today they were already in the car as they are every day. Shortly after picking me up mom's phone rang, so she was on the phone for a while. He was sitting behind me and kept making these lip smacking noises behind me like a camel. My mom can't hear well and she's about to get hearing aids, so she couldn't hear it. And he knew that, and it was bugging us and we asked him several times to stop, but since mom couldn't hear it, he continued as we were driving 10 minutes down the road. I told him if he didn't stop, it was going to be on later. He kept doing it.
We got home I "smacked" him on the cheek when he got out of the car, but I didn't hit him hard enough to even hurt him. He made it a much bigger deal than it really was (mom was still on the phone), so we were outside of the car standing in the yard and he's freaking out and I said "stop it. I told you to stop and you didn't and I didn't even hurt you, but I will if you don't quit being a little butt-crack." So here's the good part. He POKES HIMSELF IN THE EYE to produce tears and makes himself cry so he's standing there fake crying and told mom that I hit him and he tried to get me in trouble, meanwhile mom was still on the phone. It didn't work with mom because I explained after she got off of the phone, but he still didn't get in trouble.
Then, after church tonight, we were in the parking lot and mom was talking to another lady. I was on the right side of the car and he was on the left (the side facing my mom). I was sitting in the seat and he was leaning in the left side door and he kept hitting me then moving back so I couldn't do anything. I said "if you touch me again, whatever body part touches me, I am going to break it." And I was very sincere. I was completely fed up with his crap, and him getting away with it as today was the icing on the cake. He acted like he was going to hit me again, and I lunged at him. He shut the door of the car on himself because we were parked on a hill. Then apparently the door hurt him, so he started "crying" again, and told mom that I had punched him. Mom had seen the entire thing. Did I get in trouble? No. Did he? No.
This is him almost 24/7 and he gets away with it because they give him sympathy because he's the only boy child in the house and three girls. They're like well he has to deal with three girls.. NO. We have to deal with him. And he's a little terror because he knows he will get away with it. I'm sick of us always getting in trouble (because we normally do, especially when he fake cries), today was a rarity that I didn't get in trouble because of his crap.
I'm sorry, but if you got it coming to you, it's your own freaking fault and you shouldn't have messed with that person. And if he keeps up I think he really is going to get hurt. I'm going to snap eventually.
I can't just ignore it. They tell me "ignore him and he will stop." but he doesn't. He keeps on and keeps on and keeps on. It's a never ending cycle and he rarely gets in trouble for anything he does.