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Oasis
September 30th, 2016, 07:42 AM
So I've been talking to this guy from school and we wanna hang out, but I have really strict parents who say I can't date anyone who isn't my religion and blah blah blah, and he isn't my religion and yeah..... So I'm gonna have to be sneaking around to see him but I just don't know how not to get caught.... Ive never snuck around with a boy before, like we might hang out tonight after the football game because I'm in color guard in the band so I have to go to the game then if he is able to hang out I'll just tell my mom I'm going to the bad party but i need to figure out a way to cover my tracks..


Help please!

Any ideas??

He also is planning to ask me out but he wants it. To just be when we are alone so it can't happen at school....

I don't have my license either yet

Double post merged ~ ImCoolBeans

NZPerson
September 30th, 2016, 03:10 PM
Its really quite sad that parents think they can control who you date soley on relegion, love has no boundaries and if you wanna be with him just do it. Maybe just hang at his place rather than yours but honestly if your parents are cool then tellinf them whats happening may help them realise but if theyre close minded then just sneak around till you can.

jamie_n5
September 30th, 2016, 03:43 PM
I can't believe that your parents are that way. That is an nineteenth century attitude. I really don't believe in sneaking around but I certainly understand your predicament. If you want to date this guy I would just go ahead. It will be tough to stick up for your rights with your parents. Parents do kind of own you until you are 18. You really can't totally go against them but I strongly believe you have the right to date and eventually marry the person you love regardless of his religion. I feel for you and wish you luck.