Start of a long relationship

[benlodge123]

Hello, Yesterday i started talking to this girl on snapchat. She is called Tilly.
really nice, good looking according to her instagram. But... she lives 40 minutes away and she goes to a boarding school. Her dad died last year and her mums an alcoholic. Tilly said she wanted to meet me, i said for sure. Then she said she isnt allowed out at the weekends without a friend and she is only allowed out where she lives. On the weekdays she is allowed to meet up, but she must be home by 5. I finish school at 3 and takes me around 45 minutes to get home. leaving no time to meet up. I dont know how to make it work??
Any advice?

[Leprous]

Gonna sound pretty blunt here but yeah.

Do you know Tilly is actually Tilly? Like are you sure she is who you think she is? You always have to be careful with these things.

Also correct me if I'm wrong but if she goed to a boarding school how is she supposed to be home at 5? She isn't going home right?

But yeah just be very careful you never know who the person really is unless you are 100% sure.

[Atlantis]

Umm... I'm not so sure about this. If I was in this situation, honestly I wouldn't go. How long have you actually been talking for, and how well do you actually know her? You have to be so careful about things like this, only go if you are absolutely sure the person you are talking to is real.

[benlodge123]

Gonna sound pretty blunt here but yeah.

Do you know Tilly is actually Tilly? Like are you sure she is who you think she is? You always have to be careful with these things.

Also correct me if I'm wrong but if she goed to a boarding school how is she supposed to be home at 5? She isn't going home right?

But yeah just be very careful you never know who the person really is unless you are 100% sure.


By home i meant back to her boarding house. I'll get to know her first then i may meet her, if i can there.

[Leprous]

By home i meant back to her boarding house. I'll get to know her first then i may meet her, if i can there.

Ah okay, look before you meet her make sure you know what she looks like, instagram pictures aren't always from the person that posted them. I hope she's who she is though but you always have to be certain

[ClaraWho]

Easiest solution to all this? FaceTime/Skype. Extremely hard to fake a long conversation via vid. Do that before you even consider meeting anyone, anywhere, ever. Too many pedos/murderers.

No teenager doesn't have access to a smartphone/computer with a webcam. If she says otherwise, I'd have even more serious doubts 'she' is a 'she'.

Also be careful, even if she is real you could get accused of all sorts of awful things if you met her alone. Look out for yourself first and foremost.

~ Clara

[benlodge123]

Easiest solution to all this? FaceTime/Skype. Extremely hard to fake a long conversation via vid. Do that before you even consider meeting anyone, anywhere, ever. Too many pedos/murderers.

No teenager doesn't have access to a smartphone/computer with a webcam. If she says otherwise, I'd have even more serious doubts 'she' is a 'she'.

Also be careful, even if she is real you could get accused of all sorts of awful things if you met her alone. Look out for yourself first and foremost.

~ Clara

Thank you my friend, my phone has a camera, but my Desktop PC doesnt so it will have to be through my phone.