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dysterian
September 22nd, 2016, 06:13 PM
So lately I've been liking this guy. The only problem is I'm gay and he's straight. I just can't stop thinking about him. And if I tell him he's probably going to think I'm really weird or something :(
How can I not like him?
Drewboyy
September 22nd, 2016, 06:43 PM
You can't just not like him but you can just not obsess over him by thinking of something else. Time does heal wounds in some cases
davdev17
September 22nd, 2016, 10:06 PM
The same thing is happening with me at the moment. It really sucks. Also there is like 2 other out gay guys at my school so I don't really have anyone else to like. I'm sorry this is happening to you. :(
Bull
September 23rd, 2016, 05:28 AM
So Joey, is your crush a close friend or just some random school mate? Close friends can be tough, but also surprising. If a school mate, try to become friends with him. You never know where friendship can lead. Not every guy you think is straight really is. Many are good actors, so get to know him on a more intimate basis. I have discovered that a lot of guys who "hangout" are really dating.
jamie_n5
September 23rd, 2016, 10:29 AM
There is no reason why you can't like this guy and be friends. You just can't date him or be romantically involved with him.
Zachary G
September 23rd, 2016, 12:24 PM
Theres no way to NOT like someone that you like. I mean, you like what you like and there isnt much you can do about it, unless you find that he is a horrible person or something like that. Then it would be easier to not like him so much.
ClaraWho
September 23rd, 2016, 07:38 PM
I mainly just wanted to express my sympathy for your situation, I hope with time it gets better. You'be got some good advice already, but to build upon the last post, try to find negatives about him or things you clash on. It doesn't matter whether you are straight or gay, we all can end up with unrequited love. It's horrible, but it will pass.

Good Luck,

~ Clara
davdev17
September 23rd, 2016, 10:29 PM
There is this straight guy in my English class who is sooo cute. He is really cute with a straight face but when he smiles, it's like oh my gosh. He has the best smile I have ever seen, and it seems like he is always smiling. Also he game me a nickname and like pats me on the back and stuff. It's like he is playing with me, but he has no idea that I like him. I want to laugh and cry at the same time.