Stupid Crushes?

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Okay so what basically is happening at the moment is that the guy I've had a crush (?) on, I totally thought I was over him in October(ish) last year, but I think I might not be and basically:

1. He went out with my best friend before and even though she probably doesn't think much about it at all, it happened when I liked him and it was munted. (That was when I told myself I didn't like him anymore)

2. 110% sure he doesn't like me more than a friend. I could be wrong but I'm quite positive about it.

I know I probably don't have a chance at all but I was wondering if it was just stupid puberty doing it's things or not and whether or not there's any way I can get over it quickly.

Thank you dearly~

[conniption]

We've all had those stupid crushes that seem to go away for a while, only for you to realize that it never left. It just happens. It's up to you to ignore it, or do something about it though, because you can't force them to go away.

[Synyster Shadows]

After enough time, those feelings will pass. Trust me; I had a crush on this one girl for three years. She rejected me and I still managed to get over her. It'll pass in time

[goundy]

Interesting you would mention that you're certain he doesn't like you.

Guys like anyone and everyone but typically (especially when they are younger) aren't going to show visible signs of interest unless the girl does first. Guys are automatically attracted to girls (despite what they tell you about them 'chosing' who they like and how many 'options they have') but unless they are already invested in you, most of them won't budge and will act indifferent.

Unless this guy has pimp level options (an impossibility for a 14-16 year old guy) he probably likes you - even if just a little bit.

[radsniper]

goundy is completly correct if you want to get over him suppress the thoughts and do not compare other guys to him and the feelings will eventually go away