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Abbeys
September 21st, 2016, 09:45 AM
I have been in a long term (6mths) relationship with a boy and it's my first serious one.
I really really like him and don't know what to do to keep him and keep him interested.
Is it too late?
MaeFae
September 21st, 2016, 10:14 AM
I would ask him why he doesn't find you attractive anymore, if there's even a reason. I find it weird he would just stop randomly o,O
LITTLEANGEL19
September 21st, 2016, 10:36 AM
I would agree Mae also it sounds like he is just using it as a excuse to break up and move on, but don't blame yourself and don't let him blame you by making out its your fault, it's his loss . I hope all goes well for you it sounds like he does not deserve you.
Take Care XX
AmyUK
September 21st, 2016, 10:48 AM
Yeah try and find out why. It's an easy get-out for him if he's not man enough to admit that he wants out.
However if it is true it's a problem. A relationship where one doesn't find the other sexually attractive isn't really going to work in the long term.
Nicole4All
September 21st, 2016, 12:32 PM
That seems like a very harsh way for him to break up with you. I'd suggest asking him what changed about you over time that makes you any less attractive now than you were at the start. But in any case, you can't force someone to like you, so I'd be prepared to move on and find someone who truly appreciates you for who you are.
Living For Love
September 21st, 2016, 01:45 PM
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jamie_n5
September 24th, 2016, 07:33 PM
Has he actually told you he wants to break up? I think that you need to have a serious talk and see where you stand. Ask him what is wrong or why he may have different feelings. If you haven't had a sexual relationship maybe he trying to do this to see if he can get you to have sex. You need to have a serious talk no matter what.
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