Touching

[benlodge123]

I have liked this girl now for about 6 months, we are great friends and we always talk. We laugh, smile and do all the normal stuff with each other. How do i get into touching her without her finding it weird? E.G. like her legs touch mine or her arm brushing mind.

[Nicole4All]

Start by talking to her and then occasionally touching her arm at the right moments. Of she reciprocates by doing the same or getting closer, you're on your way.

[Cadanance00]

Move from touching hands to arms and then farther in. Move slowly and give her time to push your hand away if she doesn't want to go that far. If she does, you can try again later but if she says don't do it again, don't.

Girls like the attention if you're not rude or overbearing or if it's inappropriate for the time or place.

[jamie_n5]

Well you could start out by hugging her. Then when sitting put your arm around her. You don't say if you are dating or not so I don't know what more I could add.

[sara___]

hugs are a good starting point

[Falcons_11]

IDK if this is true. But 2 of my friends who have g/fs told me that once they started holding hands they got closer and closer.

[Trevorkid]

Yeah, I think holding hands is a good place to start.

[Kory123]

How about making it seem reasonable, if you guys are comfortable with each other then I say it's all good. Maybe you can act hyper and tell her to come follow you to somewhere and like grab her arm and pull her a little bit faster? Or sometimes afterschool we hang with kids and sit on a wall, I asked to lean on her as she did the same. I mean as long as you guys are comfortable with each other it's shouldn't be weird and difficult.

[angelina]

hugs are a good starting point
yeah..occasionally or accidentally you can do to test her response...i think so

[Atlantis]

How about making it seem reasonable, if you guys are comfortable with each other then I say it's all good. Maybe you can act hyper and tell her to come follow you to somewhere and like grab her arm and pull her a little bit faster? Or sometimes afterschool we hang with kids and sit on a wall, I asked to lean on her as she did the same. I mean as long as you guys are comfortable with each other it's shouldn't be weird and difficult.

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